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Jin

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Since: 01-12-05
From: Nowhere

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Posted on 02-22-06 03:34 PM Link | Quote
Okay, here's the skinny. My ex-girlfriend is kind of a wreck these days, and is doing some pretty far out things to try and make me feel like crap. And granted, it's working. I talked to her this morning and well, I think that she might be doing some things that could effect her for the rest of her life. But the problem is, I hate her. And really hope she hurts herself atleast half as much as she's hurt me.

Am I in any way obligated to try and step in?
Elara

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Ms. Invisable








Since: 08-15-04
From: Ferelden

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Posted on 02-22-06 08:39 PM Link | Quote
Technically no, you are not obligated to do anything if you don't want to... but if it is something really serious you should do something.
Makura









Since: 01-22-05
From: The restaurant at the end of the universe....

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Posted on 02-22-06 09:44 PM Link | Quote
I'm an insensitive bitch, for the moment anyways. I say, fuck her. If she hurt you, let her hurt. Although if you care about her letting her self-destruct isn't going to be easy. If you don't, let it go.
Katana

Dark Wizard
\"She said tonight...come on come on collide...see what I fire feels like..I bet its just like heaven.\"








Since: 08-15-04
From: Philadelphia, P.A.

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Posted on 02-22-06 09:49 PM Link | Quote
People aren't ever obligated to do anything like that. 'Least they shouldn't be as far as I'm concerned.

However, I'm going to be honest and say that maybe you should help her out. You never know. If anything, it would be for YOUR own good. Years from now, this could be something that you end up regretting and guild is one tough bitch to live with. And you know...you helping her out somehow doesn't mean you personally walking her through everything. Telling someone that could and would want to help her would do as well.
True Flight

The One








Since: 08-21-04

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Posted on 02-23-06 04:16 PM Link | Quote
Me... I'm sort of a selfless person. I say hi to even my worst enemies. (Ie. Church and Craig)

Anyway I would step in and go "Hey, if you're going to hurt yourself do it another way." It's just something that I do.

..... A lesson I should've learned waaaay back with my ex father.


(Last edited by True Flight on 02-23-06 07:16 PM)
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Beezo








Since: 12-29-04
From: paris, canada

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Posted on 02-24-06 04:41 PM Link | Quote
you know, the fact that you even consider helping her (like making this thread), means that you already want to help her. so you already know the answer...
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