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Black Lord

Koopa








Since: 12-12-04

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Posted on 06-22-05 06:21 AM Link | Quote
I'm terrified of losing her. Terrified. The thought of not being with her brings me to tears. Honestly without her I don't know what I would do. Maybe it's just me being a little to clingy and protective, but I've never felt this close to a girl before, and just being with her brings a certain happiness to me. Everyday I feel myself getting closer and closer to her, and I don't want her to be growing away from me as I grow closer to her.

Gawd, why did all my other relationships have to be messed up. Without them, I wouldn't have all these doubts in my mind. But I've been fucked over way to many times and I'm hoping it doesn't happen this time.

I just needed to get this out. Don't feel any need to reply.
True Flight

The One








Since: 08-21-04

Since last post: 99 days
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Posted on 06-22-05 07:05 AM Link | Quote
Paranoia winds up with you losing her. That's my thought on this. You don't want to be paranoid of something such as this. Look you like her that much be brave... =P
Black Lord

Koopa








Since: 12-12-04

Since last post: 5622 days
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Posted on 06-22-05 07:51 AM Link | Quote
Yeah, you're right. There is nothing to worry about. If our love is mutual, it will work out, and if it's not, it won't work out. And I wouldn't want to be with someone who doesn't love me anyway.
Broken Dreams

Thief








Since: 05-29-05
From: California

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Posted on 06-22-05 03:57 PM Link | Quote
it wouldn't hurt to ask her if she had any feelings for you, I have this one friend I been hanging out with alot and I just came out with the answer and asked him if he liked me, he was nervous at first but said the more he hangs out with me he is starting to like me more and he asked me the same quistion, I told him yeah I liked him but were still friends nothing happened between us nothing awkward we were just being honest that we liked each other.
Elara

Divine Mamkute
Dark Elf Goddess
Chaos Imp
Penguins Fan

Ms. Invisable








Since: 08-15-04
From: Ferelden

Since last post: 99 days
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Posted on 06-22-05 10:51 PM Link | Quote
I know that I'm going to get bitched at for saying this, but...

Are you sure that it is love and not infatuation? Infatuation can lead to those feelings as well, that is why I ask.

Anywho, since I know the feeling, I will tell you this. True us right, paranoia will chase her away if you are not careful. The key thing to do is to let the past remain in the past and don't worry about it unless you start seeing some signs of history repeating itself. Easiest thing to do is to have a talk with her about it, see how she feels and what she can do to ease your worry.

I've lost more than one boyfriend by being clingy... hell, I even lost a fiancee that way sorta. A little clingy is a good thing, but don't get possessive or start always doubting her. If there is no trust, then the relationship will die.
Black Lord

Koopa








Since: 12-12-04

Since last post: 5622 days
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Posted on 06-22-05 11:05 PM Link | Quote
Broken Dreams: I'm pretty sure she likes me, tonight she told me to come over just because we haven't been able to see each other the past couple days, and I could only stay for a half hour. Which isn't long. We both enjoy eachother's company, and could care less what else is going on.

Elara: Yeah, it could be infatuation, but if it is, we're both infatuated with eachother... so I'll let it live it's course tell it ends. It will be fun while it lasts. But I'm pretty sure this is more then infatuation... and I was stupid to even be doubting her as I found out tonight.
Elara

Divine Mamkute
Dark Elf Goddess
Chaos Imp
Penguins Fan

Ms. Invisable








Since: 08-15-04
From: Ferelden

Since last post: 99 days
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Posted on 06-23-05 12:55 AM Link | Quote
Oh?

*must not ask for details, forcing self not to*

Glad to know that things are good then.
Black Lord

Koopa








Since: 12-12-04

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Posted on 06-23-05 06:35 AM Link | Quote
There's nothing to saucy goin on Elara, other then kissing and cuddling type of stuff. But when she told me that there was no other person she would rather be with, and that when I'm with her everything feels complete. That's when I knew she is in love with me, and I feel the same way for her.
Gannondorf

Octorok








Since: 06-10-05
From: Playboy mansion

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Posted on 06-23-05 06:53 AM Link | Quote
i have the samething going so i have no advice
Elara

Divine Mamkute
Dark Elf Goddess
Chaos Imp
Penguins Fan

Ms. Invisable








Since: 08-15-04
From: Ferelden

Since last post: 99 days
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Posted on 06-23-05 09:25 AM Link | Quote
Originally posted by Black Lord
There's nothing to saucy goin on Elara, other then kissing and cuddling type of stuff. But when she told me that there was no other person she would rather be with, and that when I'm with her everything feels complete. That's when I knew she is in love with me, and I feel the same way for her.


I figured it was something like that. *is hopeless romantic*

Well, I am glad that you are happy and that you're over the paranoia.
Xeios

You WANKER!








Since: 08-16-04

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Posted on 06-23-05 04:55 PM Link | Quote
Hey dude, don't think like that, then you might do something really stupid, like break up with her even though you love her, just so you don't get hurt.

(my gf did the same thing to me, and now she wants me back, and I'm telling her 'No')

Oh boyoboyoboy, love is a cruel mistress.
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