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True Flight

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Since: 08-21-04

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Posted on 10-18-08 02:58 PM Link | Quote
So i was dumped a while back. Don't know why I'm feeling like this we only dated for about three months and I just got to trusting him. It was one of those things that I was going to talk to him about. I wanted to talk about this in person. He totally cut me off. I'm sorry if you're watching me you minght not be hearing music for a while.

I want none of my music to be affected by the way I feel so I will try to write it out on my journals. It just really hurts... I don't even know why. I was only wth the guy for THREE MONTHS! WTF XD
Rogue
If you're reading this... You are the Resistance











Since: 08-17-04

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Posted on 10-18-08 05:56 PM Link | Quote
I've got friends who've been more annoyed/heartbroken/upset over break-ups with people they'd only dated for a few weeks, when they expressed almost no emotion over dumping/being dumped by someone they'd been with for years.

Oddly enough in one situation, my friend was just about to dump this guy, and he'd cut off all communication with her and started dating other girls. She didn't get over him for months (she actually broke into tears of heartbreak), despite her dislike of him when they were together.

Life's weird like that. Don't sweat it.


(Last edited by Rogue on 10-18-08 05:56 PM)
Cteno

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Since: 01-11-05

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Posted on 10-20-08 05:08 PM Link | Quote
Breakups are never easy and women usually take it harder (psychologically, women are more mentally attuned and men are more physically attuned), therefore all of the attachment that you had was suddenly taken away, leaving a big empty gap where there was once love. It's like losing a limb!

For men it's normally a very different story. After a break up, they're usually only mentally concerned for a but a short time afterward but can bounce back because there is physical stimulation all around (not talking purely about sex/women, but also visual sensations like when you see a beach at sunrise).

So chances are, that empty hole is wrecking you something fierce. My advice is to go hang out with a friend or two, eat that awesome pint of ice cream and watch a funny movie (preferably nothing romantic) and just have a good time, or at least try to. Don't get too caught up in the how and why and shut yourself out, but try to find something social to do.
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