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Cairoi This isn't about you and your loud mouth, This is about me and my fucking beard.         Since: 08-29-04 From: PA Since last post: 4850 days Last activity: 4474 days |
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| Tonight while I was sleeping a message was sent to me and my girlfriend, which she woke me up to show. It's a message from my best friend, but the second I opened it I knew it wasn't him. It was the words of my "friend" who is dating my best friend, but in a way it felt like Alex was coerced into making it, too.
The message entailed them giving reasons as to why me and my girlfriend's relationship is abusive and how I need to break up with her. She did this before to friends she had in middle school, and she alienated them and has hated (the girl) since then. While I could give two shits about this girl, as she has maniplulated me, my girlfriend, my best friend, and others for quite some time, I feel like she's going to take my best friend away from me. I don't ever want to associate with her again, but she took him from me. And it burns. |
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Xeios You WANKER! Since: 08-16-04 Since last post: 5076 days Last activity: 1386 days |
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| John, don't let this get to you. Listen, we're bros to the end, got it. If a dame were to get in our way, I'd push her away. This is what brothers do, we stick together through thick and thin. I know me and you haven't been able to hang out for a while. It's been some time since we've gotten together for a jamboree. It's both our faults, really. There are too often times when I'm unavailable, and on those times when I'm actually available, you're not. It's a cryin' shame. But Alex, you two see each other often. This is just some drama bullshit, and when he realizes how he lost a great friend, after him and this girl have parted ways, then he will come right back, trying to make ends meet.
You can't be angry, for when a friend, or ex-friend rather, tries to reconcile you need to be over this, you need to become stronger and take this as a test. There's no real anger in you about this, just sadness, because a friend who was once good to you, is being pulled away. Don't associate with her, let her know that you're pissed this happened and "break up" with your friend. (The girl) Then of course there's the other side, she could be trying to look out for you. I doubt it, but it might be true. I don't think you and your girlfriend have a destructive relationship. In fact, I think you two have a very good relationship. You'd have to to live so far apart and care this much for each other. Call me when you get the chance. We gotta talk. |
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Elara Divine Mamkute Dark Elf Goddess Chaos Imp Penguins Fan Ms. Invisable  Since: 08-15-04 From: Ferelden Since last post: 102 days Last activity: 102 days |
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| I know how you feel, I haven't been able to talk to one of my best friends for well over a year now because of her boyfriend. I don't know the specifics or why this girl would say such things, but I really think that you should try to get Alex by himself as soon as you can and have a talk with him. No one should have the power to end your friendship but the two of you. | |||
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Cairoi This isn't about you and your loud mouth, This is about me and my fucking beard. Since: 08-29-04 From: PA Since last post: 4850 days Last activity: 4474 days |
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| Turns out his girlfriend didn't help him write that, or so she says, but she voiced herself personally not too long ago and basically, she brought that into being. She called my girlfriend "delusional" for personal decisions that really didn't affect anyone down here.
Yeah, Xei, we need to hang out as much as possible. We're soul brothers and I miss you. |
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