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Cairoi This isn't about you and your loud mouth, This is about me and my fucking beard.         Since: 08-29-04 From: PA Since last post: 4851 days Last activity: 4475 days |
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| I incredibly and thoroughly disagree with almost everything you just said.
Love and sex can be seperate, but they are sure as fuck related and tied together. In my relationship, the sex isn't all we care about, but we enjoy doing it. We enjoy making each other feel good, and the feelings during and after are some of the most powerful feelings in the world. I don't believe in mistrust. I believe that trusting a person is a universal goodness, and if they betray your trust, you are not wrong. They are the one who are wrong. And also, where in the world do you get the people are worried about looking like sluts then acting them? Trust me, I see so many more people that look like sluts than people that actually are sluts. |
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Makura Since: 01-22-05 From: The restaurant at the end of the universe.... Since last post: 5890 days Last activity: 5155 days |
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| I completely agree, Cairoi. Sex can be seperate and I'm not saying that's wrong, but sex and love are most definately connected. And I'd never judge a person on they're demenor towards sex. I sometimes come off as a slut because of how openly I can talk about sex, that doesn't make me one and people who know me realize that. | |||
Evo Red Super Koopa Watching you fall brings joy to my heart....  Since: 08-16-04 From: Oregon Since last post: 6112 days Last activity: 6052 days |
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Joining the topic late, so I apologize. 
Sex with someone you love is absolutly amazing. The connection you feel... I could have sworn I was on drugs 
I recently had sex with someone I didn't know too well (yes, I am a dumbass)... and it was damn enjoyable too. Sex comes from love, but love doesn't come from sex. Kind of like a square is a rectangle, but not all rectangles are square. Damn... i'm odd when I'm sick. *passes out on the couch* |
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Leon D. Sagara Zombie Tarma HELLO!!!!! ^_^  Since: 08-18-04 From: To Hell and Back Since last post: 5310 days Last activity: 4791 days |
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| Sex is another part of a relationship with it or without it, no relationship will work.
To much is bad, but not enough is also bad. I like Sex........Thats all I care about. I respect people's wishes, however I am a man, I need my NEEDS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
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Bitmap #1 Enhancement Shaman US Ravenholdt  Since: 09-05-04 From: His Laughin' Place Since last post: 4560 days Last activity: 4553 days |
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Originally posted by Leon D. Sagara Well, I have to stand here and say that I dont exactly need it. I mean, My Girlfriend and I have other ways of pleasing each other on Sex, but since ive been up here, We have both done Oral 4 times since Ive been up here. Also, no masterbation from me as well as Kyla. Why so little? Well, I just dont want it sometimes, I would much rather go out and skate, go to the movies, hang out with friends, Cuddle, and do other things busides Sex. Maybe its because im scared to get her pregnant, but I dont want sex. hell, I havent let myself go in 2 weeks.  And tomorrow (April 3rd) is when im going home. maybe tonight we may do it...but I wouldent know.
I enjoy it, but not to the point to where im thinking about it all the time. |
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nuit Goomba Since: 03-04-07 Since last post: 5403 days Last activity: 4088 days |
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Originally posted by Cairoi I assume you're young. I know plenty of girls that lie and talk shit behind other girl's backs, and then you find out the truth about them. They are sluttier than any of the other people they have been talking shit about. As they say, it's easier to apologize than it is not to do it. And no they aren't related, god dammit. Stop fucking period, and see how long they stick around out of "love." |
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Siobhan. Red Paragoomba  Since: 02-15-07 From: Boston Since last post: 6266 days Last activity: 5306 days |
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Originally posted by nuitOriginally posted by Cairoi Way to be a fucking asshole. I'm in a long distance relationship with him and we go without physical contact for anywhere from one to three months at a time. Then again, we are exceptional humans, much more enlightened than the ones you're used to  |
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Makura Since: 01-22-05 From: The restaurant at the end of the universe.... Since last post: 5890 days Last activity: 5155 days |
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| You're saying that love and sex aren't related, then you said to stop completely and see how they stick around out of love, wouldn't that make them related? Sex comes with love, but love doesn't always come from sex.
EDIT: You two make an asorable couple I've seen on myspace. (Last edited by Makura on 04-03-07 07:55 PM) |
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Rogue If you're reading this... You are the Resistance Since: 08-17-04 Since last post: 637 days Last activity: 445 days |
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| Just dropping in to throw in my two cents.
Love and sex are two separate things, but when they come together, they unleash bliss incarnate. I can't even express, when the two entwine, how much energy, empowerment and passion two hearts exert on one another in the throes of physical ecstasy. I swear it sometimes makes you want to erupt tears of sheer joy. Sex can be great without love, but absolutely Earth-shattering with it. Love can exist without sex (as shown by so many couples out there who either rarely have it or don't have it at all any more), and of course there's sex without love. I started having sex when I was 18, but started being physically intimate around 15. I had a sort of awakening amid making out with someone I had an infatuation for. Now there is a huge difference between being a slut and being one who shares themselves only with the occasional person. A slut will do anyone who comes his/her way without having any feeling in it, even enjoyment, while a person who happens to be sexually-active with the occasional person does not. You can be a slut for one person (in the sense of doing anything for them), but not a slut in the general definition. I completely abhor when people classify a girl who's slept with a man or two as a slut or a whore, but consider a womanizing man who's slept with 50 women a regular guy. Enough with the double standards already. |
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Makura Since: 01-22-05 From: The restaurant at the end of the universe.... Since last post: 5890 days Last activity: 5155 days |
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| Rogue, you're words make me flutter.
Anyway, new topic, do you view homosexual sex differently from heterosexual sex..the sex alone, this isn't a debate on homosexuality. (Last edited by Makura on 04-03-07 10:54 PM) |
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Xeios You WANKER! Since: 08-16-04 Since last post: 5077 days Last activity: 1387 days |
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| I differ homosexuality from heterosexuality in the sense that I've seen what seems to differ between the sexual relationships of young people. Homosexual friends of mine have moved extremely quickly into sexual acts with each other. While the majority of Heterosexual relationships I have witnessed, have moved at a much steadier pace. That's just my experience though. | |||
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nuit Goomba Since: 03-04-07 Since last post: 5403 days Last activity: 4088 days |
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Originally posted by cawn Q byneOriginally posted by nuitOriginally posted by Cairoi O rly? The humans I am used to are the ones that frequent this message board. So much for being more enlightened :/ I think Rogue has a pretty good handling on it. I think double-standards are stupid as well. I just think we should stop using words like slut, whore, etc because everyone is one. Like Rogue mentioned, even if not in general, for one person at least, we are. If not yet, it's just a matter of time. |
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Logos Again? Banned  Since: 07-24-06 Since last post: 6107 days Last activity: 6198 days |
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Actually, not really!  |
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Rogue If you're reading this... You are the Resistance Since: 08-17-04 Since last post: 637 days Last activity: 445 days |
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Originally posted by Logos Not to sound like I'm just giving you shit, but care to elaborate more on your opinion? In answer to the new question, as I honestly doubt I could swing toward wanting women I can't answer for any lesbians or gay men, but I only see it as the physical expression of love (and/or lust) between two people. If two people want to explore each other, why not? Obviously those who believe homosexuality is wrong are going to disagree with me, but if it's two consenting people I don't see a problem with it. |
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Bitmap #1 Enhancement Shaman US Ravenholdt Since: 09-05-04 From: His Laughin' Place Since last post: 4560 days Last activity: 4553 days |
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Originally posted by Rogue I agree. I dont mind Gays/ Lesbians or anything. But I just dont want them hitting on me or anything.Hell, I have a Gay roomate who is obsessed with Brittany spears, and we get along GREAT! ( I diddnt like it that one time where he was drunk and was explaining Gay sex to me  ) |
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Logos Again? Banned Since: 07-24-06 Since last post: 6107 days Last activity: 6198 days |
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| I was just noting that everyone is not really a "whore" or "slut." | |||
Elara Divine Mamkute Dark Elf Goddess Chaos Imp Penguins Fan Ms. Invisable  Since: 08-15-04 From: Ferelden Since last post: 103 days Last activity: 103 days |
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| Nuit, your points aside, the AIM speak needs to go. It's not much harder to type 'really'. Also, was that an attempt to insult specific members of the board? If so, stop it now.
Anywho, love and sex are different and you can have one without the other, though in my opinion sex without love is meaningless even if it feels good. As for the topic at hand, the only real distinction I make between hetero and homo sex is that they do it differently. I can only assume it feels different to them, since they can't really use the heterosexual method; but it gives them pleasure so more power to them. |
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Xeios You WANKER! Since: 08-16-04 Since last post: 5077 days Last activity: 1387 days |
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| This brings another question to mind: Since the distinction and label of "Whore" and "slut" are necessary, how should we justly label these people.
for example, am I a whore or slut because I've had sex with one person? Or do the actions you take in the bedroom with that person what distinguish someone as a whore or slut. If I have a fancy to give a female oral satisfaction(  ) am I a whore? A slut?
Riddle me that. |
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Truth/Serum Cheep-cheep Continued Harassment. Since: 03-07-05 From: In pieces Since last post: 6287 days Last activity: 6258 days |
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| I'd probably say it's someone who freely has sex with multiple people, or has had sex with multiple people in a somewhat short amount of time. By freely, I mean without regards as much to emotional attachment, rather, has had sex with different people based on lust more than anything else.
Like someone who just get's horny, has sex with people they're attracted to, but there's no relationship involved. Continually having one night stands, or week or two long relationships and cycling around between lot's of people. What you do in the bedroom really is more talking about fetishes, likes/dislikes, wild/or not, etc Doesn't have much to do with being a whore.
But we can just go with the classical definition of whore as "someone who has sex with people for money" |
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Xeios You WANKER! Since: 08-16-04 Since last post: 5077 days Last activity: 1387 days |
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| well, then whore I am not.
Love and Passion are an awesome combination, and I recommned everyone tries it at least once. |
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