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Makura









Since: 01-22-05
From: The restaurant at the end of the universe....

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Posted on 07-28-06 01:20 AM Link | Quote
Okay so honestly. The other day I admitted to my boyfriend that I was attracted to one of his friends. Why? Beacause I felt like it was the honest thing to do. I then asked who he ws physically attracted to, besides me, obviously.

It was actually kind of fun talking about it.

If you are in a relationship is it okay for you or your partner to look at other people in a physical attraction sort of way.

Some people get realy bent out of shape over this. Are you the jealous type?

Honestly, I check our girls just as much as I check out guys.
Shredprankster01

Tektite








Since: 06-22-06
From: Arkansas

Since last post: 5693 days
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Posted on 07-28-06 11:37 AM Link | Quote
Ugh.

I made the mistake of telling my ex, while we were dating, that I had a DREAM about making out with one of my guy friends that I wasn't the least bit attracted to. It was a freakin dream, and the whole way home, he wouldn't talk to me, hold my hand, or even look at me. He was so angry. It was pathetic.

I don't think it's wrong to look at other people, it's completely and totally natural. It's when it goes beyond looking that it becomes a problem.
Katana

Dark Wizard
\"She said tonight...come on come on collide...see what I fire feels like..I bet its just like heaven.\"








Since: 08-15-04
From: Philadelphia, P.A.

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Posted on 07-28-06 02:02 PM Link | Quote
It's not something that I would consider a problem, but more of something to be careful over, even if it is just a simple glance. That's really cool, Makura, that you and your boyfriend were able to talk about that. And Shred, sorry about your incident. That's so stupid. It was a dream...and dreams are odd and don't always make sense.
Shredprankster01

Tektite








Since: 06-22-06
From: Arkansas

Since last post: 5693 days
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Posted on 07-28-06 02:51 PM Link | Quote
Eh, its alright. We broke up 3 years ago, so Im long over it.
Savedox

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Since: 08-20-04
From: Read \"Real Name\"

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Posted on 07-28-06 04:00 PM Link | Quote
Im single.. and will most likely be single for a long while.. so I can look at whatever I want.. *shrugs*
WhiteRose

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Since: 08-17-04
From: The Dreaming

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Posted on 07-28-06 06:07 PM Link | Quote
I am a jelouse type unfortunatly and do freak out, not because I don't trust him, but because I am so insecure of myself, especially about my apperance. I try my best not to let it get to me and I'm working on it. It's the least I can do since GuardianOni doesn't mind when I look other guys or girls...to be hones though, I do it more often than he does.
Elara

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Since: 08-15-04
From: Ferelden

Since last post: 53 days
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Posted on 07-28-06 08:19 PM Link | Quote
Well, I am apparently the jealous type. But for good reason. Occationally I don't mind if I know that there is no threat involved... but for the most part I start getting really paranoid/bitchy if the topic comes up.
Pockets

Werewolf
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Since: 10-20-04

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Posted on 07-30-06 04:34 PM Link | Quote
They way I look at things is that just because you're in a happy and committed
relationship doesn't mean you're blind. The odd thing is in my case I'll notice an
attractive person without actually being attracted TO them.

I'll just think, oh yeah she's pretty, or whatever and then go back to work without
another thought. *shrugs*
DSMagnum

Woodsman








Since: 11-06-05

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Posted on 08-02-06 12:44 AM Link | Quote
Only me, my hand, and my wang know who I'm physically attracted to.

Well, if I ever got a girlfriend and she told me that, I wouldn't care. I could understand if she was much more physically attracted to someone else besides me. I'm not the sexiest of men... or even sexy at all. If I were physically attracted to someone else, I'd probably tell my girlfriend, but I doubt that would ever happen. I'm normally not attracted to people by looks. I mean I may like the way someone looks, but I would never be attracted to them. I prefer mind over body.
Makura









Since: 01-22-05
From: The restaurant at the end of the universe....

Since last post: 5057 days
Last activity: 4323 days
Posted on 08-02-06 02:30 AM Link | Quote
I see your point DSM. I'd be more offended if my boyfriend said he was attracted to not someone's looks, but their personality. To me, that is so much worse.
Shredprankster01

Tektite








Since: 06-22-06
From: Arkansas

Since last post: 5693 days
Last activity: 5692 days
Posted on 08-05-06 09:53 AM Link | Quote
(Points for lateness?)

Where are the guys like this? I swear, good guys are never here. Non-jealous, non-paranoid guys with a sense of maturity and common sense.

GOD, WHY???!

/End rant.
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