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Katana Dark Wizard \"She said tonight...come on come on collide...see what I fire feels like..I bet its just like heaven.\"          Since: 08-15-04 From: Philadelphia, P.A. Since last post: 1554 days Last activity: 1371 days |
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| I just wanna know. Why do shitty things happen? **shrugs** Yes, it's Katana's turn to be all emo here. Yay! Heh...whatever....
H'Okay...so, the lowdown. My uncle kinda like died yesterday. Right. I love him to pieces, so of course I'm sad about the loss...or at least I will be once it registers. **shrugs** He was only 51. He was at his oldest daughter's home and yeah....my little cousin told me that she was talking to him, laughing with him and all, then went to the bathroom real quick. While she was in there, she heard screaming and stuff, came rushing outside, and there was her father. On the ground. Not moving. His oldest daughter, my cousin January, was supposed to get married this weekend. His youngest is sixteen years old. Like I said, I was close to him and all, 'cept this past year, since my mom became more involved in my life, I didn't see him as much. Anywho...what upsets me the most....Mary, the youngest....is sixteen years old. Why? She's too young to loose a parent. I dunno why I'm harping on that thought, but it's really upsetting me. So yeah, like I said, just being emo here. Typing is theraputic. Ktnx. |
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Belial Bazu Since: 01-29-05 From: New Zealand Since last post: 4364 days Last activity: 3978 days |
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| How did he die?
I lost my dad when I was sixteen. He was only 44 years old. It didn't register to me until Christmas time, a month later. I broke down in the house all alone and cried for hours. I always think he's going to call and ask, "Hey, Ace, how's everything going?" And I can hear those words in my head, remembering his voice... But he won't. Anyway, Katana, it isn't something you get over. You will never get over it. It's a part of you, that will help you be strong and be a part of who you are. |
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Truth/Serum Cheep-cheep Continued Harassment. Since: 03-07-05 From: In pieces Since last post: 6283 days Last activity: 6255 days |
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| Holy crap kate! Which uncle? Please tell me it wasn't Uncle Ralph...
Oh I am so sorry Kate.. No one knows why shitty things happen, but they happen, and there's not much we can do about them beyond do what we can to help those who are going through it. I'm sorry there's not much any of us here can do for you, but if you need to talk, you've always got me, geoff, and my whole gang back home you can call and talk to okay? We're here for ya no matter what. It's what friend's are for. Take care of yourself and do the best you can to get through this okay? I know I'm not being to original here with all this, but it still needs to be said. Be sure to be there for your cousins as much as you can.. I really don't know what to say to you to help, but I believe you'll do the best thing for them, I know you will. *hugs* |
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BBQMissile ChaoticDeath  Since: 08-16-04 From: New York Since last post: 4937 days Last activity: 925 days |
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| I'm not going to tell you I'm sorry because i'm not. I'm not going to say i'll be there for you, because i never met you in real life. I'm not going to go on a ridiculous senseless and empty post about how everything will be alright.
I will tell you this: Shit happens. Whatever does not kill one will make one stronger. You need to get over it and move on. When worse comes to worst, smile at Fate and flip her the finger. |
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Katana Dark Wizard \"She said tonight...come on come on collide...see what I fire feels like..I bet its just like heaven.\" Since: 08-15-04 From: Philadelphia, P.A. Since last post: 1554 days Last activity: 1371 days |
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| Thanks you guys. I was kinda starting to lose it before I posted this, so in saying something, I was able to read it over, realize how stupid I sounded, and then be okay for my little cousin. She kinda like latched herself on me and kept thanking me for not crying and stuff, it made her feel a lot better to have someone that was there for just her.
I'm okay with the whole death thing. I mean, it happens. It hurts and all, but I also know for a fact that time heals things. And besides, I have a neat little theory on death...lots of people say this too though...when someone dies, another person comes along. Cool thing is, everytime I've known someone that died, someone was having a baby. And wuddya know!  I have a new baby niece due in November.
It just broke my heart that my cousin is just a baby...not downplaying anyone as far as age goes...but 16...to have the death of a parent under your belt...you're just a baby for something like that. All I kept thinking was how much it hurt when I found out that George died (He and my mom were together when I was really little, but he's essentially my father) I was 11. It hurt so much and took me a while to get over it. Mary (the cousin) was in 4th grade at the time. She stayed up all night with me even though we had school the next day. She and her dad jumped right in and took care of me. But it still hurt. And now, 6 years later, here's Mary, feeling the same kind of pain. I'd never wish it on my worst enemy. Losing a child as a parent is the worst thing possible I think, but losing a parent comes to a close second. Oh, and to answer your question Belial, I believe it was a heart attack. The only people who were there when it happened was his immediate family, and they've had enough people ask them about it, so I'm not going to ask them just yet. So far though, I've heard from people that it was either a heart attack, stroke, or maybe even both. O_o My family is too big to depend on them to get a story straight. XD |
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| I think I may be abnormal or something.
When my dad died a few years ago, I never felt sad (and neither did I hate him, so that's not the reason). Unless it still hasn't registered in the last 6 (7?) years. | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
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