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Broken Dreams Thief          Since: 05-29-05 From: California Since last post: 6757 days Last activity: 6757 days |
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| Why do other people cheat on their partner?
No one can answer this question, there all different kinds some may feel that there getting the lack of love from there partner and don’t know how to break it off or scared of hurting there feelings by telling them the truth. Some just don’t care at all about relationships; messing around is just for fun to them. Some get bored and tired of their relationship they might think a new person would make their life more exciting. When you think about it everyone has cheated on someone at least once in his or her life. Then again there are a lot of people out there that don’t cheat and are faithful because they’re happy with the relationship that they have. Some don’t cheat because it is wrong to them and they would have too much guilt. What do you think of situations like these? Lets debate about this conversation |
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Astrophel Fear will kill your mind and steal your love as sure as anything; Fear will rob you blind and make you numb to others suffering  Since: 10-03-04 From: Azul Lux Orbital, Kirin Beta Since last post: 2611 days Last activity: 1462 days |
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Originally posted by Broken Dreams ... woah, we got a problem here. Looks like you messed up on your wording a little, as these two consecutive sentences went directly against each other.  I assume you didn't mean "everyone has cheated", but rather "a lot of people have cheated"?
As for why they do, I suppose you've hit every possible reason I could think of. In fact, I can't really contribute anything beyond attempting to clear that up. And I don't mean to make fun of you with the above, I'm just trying to avoid confusion. |
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Broken Dreams Thief Since: 05-29-05 From: California Since last post: 6757 days Last activity: 6757 days |
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 im so sorry!!! omg I didn't mean to do that =( I guess I am a bit stupid and slow but i'm trying! hehe
I was just wondering if anyone agreed with me and how the felt about it. (Last edited by Broken Dreams on 06-03-05 04:55 PM) |
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Elara Divine Mamkute Dark Elf Goddess Chaos Imp Penguins Fan Ms. Invisable  Since: 08-15-04 From: Ferelden Since last post: 231 days Last activity: 231 days |
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| I kinda agree with you there, I think everyone has done it once, or at least come very close to doing it once. I chalk it up to human nature personally. | |||
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Broken Dreams Thief Since: 05-29-05 From: California Since last post: 6757 days Last activity: 6757 days |
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| I think it's sad things have to be that way.... Love hurts in many ways I do not understand... | |||
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Elara Divine Mamkute Dark Elf Goddess Chaos Imp Penguins Fan Ms. Invisable Since: 08-15-04 From: Ferelden Since last post: 231 days Last activity: 231 days |
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| I could go into a long rant on that, seeing as my philosophy on love is "Love = Pain", but I'll spare you. | |||
venomouslobster Scarfy  Since: 05-03-05 From: california (knows how to party) Since last post: 6459 days Last activity: 5708 days |
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| LOVE IS WAR....and war is hell | |||
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Broken Dreams Thief Since: 05-29-05 From: California Since last post: 6757 days Last activity: 6757 days |
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Originally posted by Elara I agree with you Love is pain 100%. |
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geeogree Ninji Since: 10-19-04 Since last post: 5306 days Last activity: 399 days |
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| love is pain?
that makes me wonder if you've ever actually been in love.... I'm in love, and 99% of the time it totally lacks pain... I mean, obviously I'm not perfect and there are disagreements and fights.... but those few moments mean nothing in the long run... I just can't imagine feeling pain from someone I love more often than that |
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Belial Bazu Since: 01-29-05 From: New Zealand Since last post: 4496 days Last activity: 4110 days |
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| well.. when in love you tend to experience wonderful things, then painful things. For some people, they just remember the bad experiences and situations instead of the wonderful ones. | |||
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geeogree Ninji Since: 10-19-04 Since last post: 5306 days Last activity: 399 days |
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| well, that's a stupid way to go about a relationship....
if you only ever focus on or remember the negative then the relationship is going to seem crappy.... |
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Jin Posting Pig Not Dead  Since: 01-12-05 From: Nowhere Since last post: 2813 days Last activity: 2672 days |
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| Thank you for that wonderfully fucked up one sided view of love geeogree. =] | |||
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Broken Dreams Thief Since: 05-29-05 From: California Since last post: 6757 days Last activity: 6757 days |
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Originally posted by geeogree Yeah I have been in love, sometimes things don't go so well for others. like on the news? women geting beaten to deathby there husbands and there inlove with them, sometimes love/goodness blinds the badness and some people just don't understand because it's making me think that you never been in that kind of situation when it comes to being inlove. People fight an argue because they care on how they both feel, which is a good thing every couple needs a good argument to show that they truly care. I am happy that you feel confident in your relationship  you got off luky.
emotional abuse, I can't handle emotions to well I think I rather get slaped around then having a person telling me horrible things or doing things that affect me emotionally. (Last edited by Broken Dreams on 06-05-05 01:41 PM) |
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Elara Divine Mamkute Dark Elf Goddess Chaos Imp Penguins Fan Ms. Invisable Since: 08-15-04 From: Ferelden Since last post: 231 days Last activity: 231 days |
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| Yes geeogree, I have been in love. More than once.
See, now I have to give the theory so you can understand: Theory of Love = Pain Love, no matter what, equals pain. However, this means both good pain and bad pain. Good pain is things like missing them when they are away, worrying about them when something is wrong, the pain of childbirth later on, or that twinge you feel when you see them hurt, stuff like that. It's the bad pain that hurts worse though, and we all know what the bad pain is, breakups and fights and abuse and what not. I'm not saying Love is good or love is bad, love is neutral in it's giving of pain, but it does give pain. |
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Kaijin Surohm Living the dream  Since: 08-16-04 Since last post: 1808 days Last activity: 995 days |
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Originally posted by geeogree Geeogree, there is more then one type of pain. Love is Pain on diffrent levels. When the person is gone, do you long to see them again? That is a form of pain. While it is not the type that you know how to identify, that is a type of pain. |
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Elara Divine Mamkute Dark Elf Goddess Chaos Imp Penguins Fan Ms. Invisable Since: 08-15-04 From: Ferelden Since last post: 231 days Last activity: 231 days |
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| Thank you Kaijin, that further backs up my theory.
Tee hee, see, my brain does work! |
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geeogree Ninji Since: 10-19-04 Since last post: 5306 days Last activity: 399 days |
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| Jin: eat a dick....
and as for the love = pain viewpoint... if you think you are going to get it, then you will.... you are the master of your universe.... if your love = pain then so be it.... |
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Elara Divine Mamkute Dark Elf Goddess Chaos Imp Penguins Fan Ms. Invisable Since: 08-15-04 From: Ferelden Since last post: 231 days Last activity: 231 days |
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| Geeogree, that insult to Jin was uncalled for. I know that you're used to being allowed to flame anyone that differs with your opinion on other boards but we don't let that shit fly here. Jin did go a bit far, but what you said was just crossing the line. Consider this a warning.
And like I said, my theory is based on observations of my relationships and those of every person I know. I welcome the good pain with open arms, I am just sick of the bad pain. (Last edited by Elara on 06-06-05 02:22 AM) |
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Broken Dreams Thief Since: 05-29-05 From: California Since last post: 6757 days Last activity: 6757 days |
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Originally posted by Elara *claps* once agian agree 100% I like how you explained that ^-^ |
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Spartan Metal battleaxe Is back. Kind of. Since: 11-15-04 Since last post: 220 days Last activity: 49 days |
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| Alright...Cheating...
Cheating-their is no explanation for this...this really sucks when you cheat on someone or someone cheats on you...i went out with somone for three years...what a waste i found out she cheated on me for one of those years...sorry but that really hurts...and if you cheat dont you have a concouis...doesnt it bother you at all... if Love=Pain why would you inflict more pain on someone else who actually cares about you...think about that for a little bit... |
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