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Angel of Deceit

Archer








Since: 04-15-05
From: I thought you knew thats why I asked.

Since last post: 6839 days
Last activity: 6750 days
Posted on 06-01-05 07:29 PM Link | Quote
Well my day just went down the drain, maybe even further down then where it stops. The one girl I loved just got dumped by her boyfriend. I mean she was crying and everything. So I tried to comfort her and make her feel better. That nite i was gonna ask her out but i figured she want some time to her self and didnt want to go out with anyone. That was the dumbest thing ive ever done. The next day I tried IMing her. She wouldnt answer. I was wanting to talk to her about going out with me...but it was to late. I got an IM from one of her ex boyfriends. He told me to leave her alone, she likes someone else, and that im bugging her. Well come to find out that nite when i was about to ask her...she said her ex boyfriend asked her out and she said yes.

Damn I havent ever felt so stupid. Thinking she wanted time to her self. Well I guess I'll have to wait even longer now. (sigh) Life is a pain in the ass.
Jin

Posting Pig
Not Dead








Since: 01-12-05
From: Nowhere

Since last post: 2442 days
Last activity: 2301 days
Posted on 06-01-05 07:33 PM Link | Quote
I'm not going to be too harsh here.. but do you REALLY 'love' this girl?

People throw that word around WAY WAY WAY too liberally, Love comes with time.. Love comes with the full and complete understanding of a person in and out and complete accepting them and wanting to be with them for the rest of your life. And that you'd do anything within your power to make them happy and keep them alive.

I'm sorry, I think you just 'liked' her.
Angel of Deceit

Archer








Since: 04-15-05
From: I thought you knew thats why I asked.

Since last post: 6839 days
Last activity: 6750 days
Posted on 06-01-05 07:38 PM Link | Quote
Well if u call liking her for 3 years knowing almost everything about her and cant stand not talking to her, love. Then thats it, but u can decide your self.
Jin

Posting Pig
Not Dead








Since: 01-12-05
From: Nowhere

Since last post: 2442 days
Last activity: 2301 days
Posted on 06-01-05 07:48 PM Link | Quote
I'm not telling you what your feelings are, I'm just saying. Don't confuse like for love.

Too many people do that, I did it once before and it only ended up very very badly.
Angel of Deceit

Archer








Since: 04-15-05
From: I thought you knew thats why I asked.

Since last post: 6839 days
Last activity: 6750 days
Posted on 06-01-05 07:54 PM Link | Quote
Well then lets just say i like her alot. That sound better now? Well anyways wut yall u think I should do just leave her alone or wait...


(Last edited by Oni on 06-01-05 11:00 PM)
Belial

Bazu








Since: 01-29-05
From: New Zealand

Since last post: 4126 days
Last activity: 3740 days
Posted on 06-01-05 08:12 PM Link | Quote
Don't feel bad... since she's already dated and broke up with the guy she's dating now, chances are that won't last either. Keep at it, trying to get her. Ask her if you really *were* annoying her, or if her boyfriend was just being a jerk.
Angel of Deceit

Archer








Since: 04-15-05
From: I thought you knew thats why I asked.

Since last post: 6839 days
Last activity: 6750 days
Posted on 06-01-05 08:36 PM Link | Quote
Well i am gonna wait it out but i can assure you im not going to make the wrong mistake next time...hopefully.


(Last edited by Oni on 06-01-05 11:43 PM)
Elara

Divine Mamkute
Dark Elf Goddess
Chaos Imp
Penguins Fan

Ms. Invisable








Since: 08-15-04
From: Ferelden

Since last post: 73 days
Last activity: 73 days
Posted on 06-01-05 08:51 PM Link | Quote
I second Belial, ask her if you were really annoying her or if it was just him saying that. If she says you were, then tell her she's on her own next time she gets dumped and wants someone to talk to.
Benja

Battering Bird








Since: 08-15-04
From: none of your damn business

Since last post: 267 days
Last activity: 267 days
Posted on 06-01-05 09:02 PM Link | Quote
And my axe..............wait we arent seconding and thirding about whos going to return the ring..........j/k........Just give it time.......
Azen Dalin

Thief








Since: 08-30-04

Since last post: 6385 days
Last activity: 6384 days
Posted on 06-02-05 03:44 AM Link | Quote
Wow...three years. o.O I've known you longer than that Oni and we're not even that close...lets see...since like what 4th grade. XD *pats you on the back* PM me and tell me who she is, she must be really important to her. I wonder if I know her...anyway (oh just so you know, its me Kristen XD)

Look, if she likes you that way, you should bring it up. Despite the fact that she's going back out with this fellow, maybe you should just go ahead and bring it up. Get it out in the open, it'll do you some good Oni.
Broken Dreams

Thief








Since: 05-29-05
From: California

Since last post: 6387 days
Last activity: 6387 days
Posted on 06-03-05 12:53 AM Link | Quote
If I was in the same situation I would wait too, I know how it feels to be asked out right away when I just broke up with some one I really liked, it's quite annoying.
Maybe she feels like she can't get anyone better but if what your saying is true about you being a good friend all these years maybe she likes you but is to afraid to sacerfise what she has.

so my stupid quistion would be " should I just tell her how I feel?"
I would even if she is with her bf. but that quistion is up to you if you want to tell her your true feelings
you might feel better.
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