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Shuyin

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Since: 08-19-04

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Posted on 04-12-05 08:21 PM Link | Quote
Originally posted by Kaijin
Just wanted to point out, Shuyin, that there is a major diffrence between love, and infatuation. So yes, that insulted me to a degree, though I agree to an extent...


I'm sorry. It wasn't my intention to insult you. I was a bit overly blunt.

Originally posted by Beowulf Cor Leonis
And Shuyin, didn't Marter Luther King Jr. just gave out his "I have a dream" speech so he would give the black more respect and freedom? Saying that pretty much counter your statement. (And for some reasons, mine too. O_o)


Wtf? Martin Luther King Jr.'s dream was equality between races. Not dreaming on being with an engaged women. You're trying to be sentimental and its failing.
Rauni









Since: 08-14-04

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Posted on 04-13-05 11:57 AM Link | Quote
Originally posted by Beowulf Cor Leonis
And Shuyin, didn't Marter Luther King Jr. just gave out his "I have a dream" speech so he would give the black more respect and freedom? Saying that pretty much counter your statement. (And for some reasons, mine too. O_o)


Wtf? Martin Luther King Jr.'s dream was equality between races. Not dreaming on being with an engaged women. You're trying to be sentimental and its failing.


Not really. A dream is a dream. It can be unrealistic at some points so it doesn't have to be the same. Heck, what Kaijin is dreaming is being with a engaged woman. Now it is unrealistic if he doesn't do a crap about just like if Martin Luther King Jr. haven't spoke out on how he feel. Martin STOOD up to show that he wasn't afraid, not even a single bits because HE choose to what he think is right..

Now Kaijin has a choice to make for himself. If he feel that he want to be with her, then by all mean, let himself stand up for himself. And if he doesn't, then hope that he will bear this weak behavior or being afraid forever. In my opinion, Kaijin should do what he think is the best, regardless of his dream or not.

(Plus, Kaijin, I suggest you should DO IT because if you don't, Low self-esteem is what you are going to get.)

(And if she was hot, I would go for her! Don't hit me, Kaijin.)
Truth/Serum

Cheep-cheep
Continued Harassment.








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Posted on 04-13-05 07:42 PM Link | Quote
I think at this point, I would take my vote, and say you should give up the dream. You really don't seem to be getting anything out of it, not even motivation for anything else, so it's not doing you any good, just harm. So let it go if you decide that's best. I don't think I have anything else to tell you.
Shuyin

Baron of Radical








Since: 08-19-04

Since last post: 2565 days
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Posted on 04-13-05 08:00 PM Link | Quote
Originally posted by Beowulf Cor Leonis

Not really. A dream is a dream. It can be unrealistic at some points so it doesn't have to be the same. Heck, what Kaijin is dreaming is being with a engaged woman. Now it is unrealistic if he doesn't do a crap about just like if Martin Luther King Jr. haven't spoke out on how he feel. Martin STOOD up to show that he wasn't afraid, not even a single bits because HE choose to what he think is right..

Now Kaijin has a choice to make for himself. If he feel that he want to be with her, then by all mean, let himself stand up for himself. And if he doesn't, then hope that he will bear this weak behavior or being afraid forever. In my opinion, Kaijin should do what he think is the best, regardless of his dream or not.



Like I said, this being deep thing isn't working out for you.

Just because you have a dream, doesn't make it an appropriate decision to try to make it come true. Hitler had a dream, and he followed through with it. See where i'm going with this?

If Kaijin "stands up for himself" as you say. It's just going to create more problems. There will be a rift in their friendship. It will make her uncomfortable, and she may grow distant. There's always the chance she won't, but it will still be in the back of her mind. I'm sure Kaijin doesn't want to risk their friendship over something like this. He already stated that she looks at him as a friend and nothing more. What good will come of telling her he wants to be with her?

Kaijin, I'm sure you know what you need to do. I know how it feels to want someone you can't have. Sometimes you just have to let things go.
Rauni









Since: 08-14-04

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Posted on 04-14-05 11:36 AM Link | Quote
Originally posted by Shuyin

He already stated that she looks at him as a friend and nothing more. What good will come of telling her he wants to be with her?

Kaijin, I'm sure you know what you need to do. I know how it feels to want someone you can't have. Sometimes you just have to let things go.



SO!? There is alway a answer to nearly everything!!! Look, if thing look hopeless for you, you might give it up. But I don't. I continue to be stubborn until to the very end. Hey, I even got few dreams I didn't accomplished yet, but it STILL worth it by going as far as I can.

And Hilter was a manic person too... Look, his dreams was to kill and rules over the "world" while some of US had a dream that we need to complete our goals. Hilters pissed us off and our dreams was to kill him and try to balance the world again and so we did! We didn't even stand by and say: "Oh look, Hilter is going to fulfilled his dream. Let's us be happy for him!" while he is killing INNOCENT PEOPLE! Heck, some of us have dreams about being a "hero" so guess what? They are!

And does it really matter if he love her and she love another man? Look, how about this!? If she doesn't feel happy with her marriage, and only felt Kaijin could be around then dude, this would be enough. Hey, I have to go through seeing my cousins going to get marry some guy I don't even know much about and I didn't want to go in the first place. But I did because I FELT SHE WOULD MORE HAPPY IF I WAS THERE FOR HER! Dreams can be broken, because only people sacrifice their to make themselves and other people happy. Plus, when you do things that worth your dreams, there may be small sacifices to pay but it pretty damn worth awhile.

And Shuyin, you obvisiously have a low self-esteem. No offense, man... but you give up too fast. You should know cowards alway get low self-esteem and when people judge them by other opinions, you are holding damn responsible for that person. "Give it up, Kaijin. Dreams are never achieveable."

No, Kaijin. Find a damn way. It doesn't have to be a relationship break, or tell her to marry you instead. JUST find a way to make yourself more confidence because of what YOU CAN DO, not what everyone tell you to do. Otherwise, you WILL NEVER feel good about yourself. How do I know?

Because I took Motive Psychology and got a A for a overall grades (7 Habits for a Highly Effective Teenagers, if you want to know). Kaijin, give out YOUR idea, and don't judge yourself when people think your dreams are alway hopeless. You got a pretty good dreams going there and it is YOUR CHOICE to decide whenether you like it or there is another dream going on there.

Most of all, everyone is entitle to do what they want, Kaijin. Not do as other people say.
Kaijin Surohm
Living the dream








Since: 08-16-04

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Posted on 04-14-05 12:18 PM Link | Quote
Beowulf, just leave this theard. All I asked for was a simple yes or no, and all you've managed to do was complicate things by going off subject about both Martin Luther AND Hitler.

I don't need a fucking history lesson. I just ask a simple fucking question.


I ternimated the friendship with her. Just looking at her, or just listening to her caused me more pain then just a simple breakup up of a friendship.

Shuyin

Baron of Radical








Since: 08-19-04

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Posted on 04-14-05 01:44 PM Link | Quote
I'm sorry to hear that. I know sympathy is the last thing you want right now.

I hope you find a balance where you can still be friends.
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