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Xeios

You WANKER!








Since: 08-16-04

Since last post: 3678 days
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Posted on 03-23-05 06:27 PM Link | Quote
The only thing I can see good for me in my future will be the inevitable moving the fuck out of my parents house, and not associating with them ever again. They give me shit about an attitude. Which I definitely admit I have, but they think it is all because of one of my best friends...

Little do they fucking know that they cause the bad attitude because they just piss me off for no reason. Point out every flaw I have, and generally don't want me to have a good time.

They hate it when I'm online all day, but then again they hate it when I am out all day.

They hate it when I go to My friend Justin's house(probably because hhe lives with his dad and is rather lenient). Yet they hate it when I stay inside all day.

They don't give me many options to be happy, and I'm going fucking insane. I seriously am contemplating just leaving. There is nothing good happening for me over here. Nothing at all...

What should I do...?
Boondock Saint

Paragoomba








Since: 08-31-04
From: Holiday Inn

Since last post: 5663 days
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Posted on 03-23-05 07:04 PM Link | Quote
stop worring about it, your 16 man lol start complaining about having no where to go when you actually have no where to go.
Xeios

You WANKER!








Since: 08-16-04

Since last post: 3678 days
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Posted on 03-23-05 07:06 PM Link | Quote
Wow, not exactly the support or advice I was hoping for.

I think I'm going to go slit my wrists now...
Elara

Divine Mamkute
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Chaos Imp
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Since: 08-15-04
From: Ferelden

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Posted on 03-23-05 11:21 PM Link | Quote
That is not even funny, so don't joke about that.

Seriously, I understand what you are going through since my folks have always been like that. It is not a fun time, and it does make you just want to reach for the knife, but that is not a good idea. You could try splitting up your time, since they complain about you "going out all day" or "staying in all day on the computer", try being on the computer for a few hours, go out to your friends for a few more hours, come home and do some other random thing for awhile, then go on the computer again or something... that way your time is split up so they should not bitch. Keep in mind, the key terms are "should not".

Other than that... well... *huggles*

Start saving money for rent and browse through the classifieds at apartments.
Déesse

Sailor Déesse
Mistress of Pink
Ambition is a poor excuse for not having enough sense to be lazy








Since: 08-14-04
From: The Moon

Since last post: 5169 days
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Posted on 03-24-05 12:20 AM Link | Quote
It can't be that bad that you would resort to cutting your wrists. Parent's are parents, they are there to teach, love and support you. If you feel they do not understand you, try talking and I said "talking" to them, don't yell or swear, just keep cool and ask them why they do this to you. You will be surprised how far talking can go and what outcomes can be achieved.

Sometimes parents can be too over protective and don’t give their kids there own space and that’s where you might have to explain to them that your 16, your not a little kid anymore.
Xeios

You WANKER!








Since: 08-16-04

Since last post: 3678 days
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Posted on 03-24-05 08:44 AM Link | Quote
Deese that's not how they are. They are just pains. They don't want to talk to me about that stuff, and I can't talk to them about it. They just over-react when I go over one of my best friends houses, because his dad is lenient. It''s fucking BULLSHIT!

And I'm not going to resort to hurting myself. I don't see a reason in it, It won't make them listen to me, it will only make them put me in therapy. God, they just piss me off so.

And splitting up my time doesn't work either. I could be at school all day, and go over a freinds house for a few hours afterschool then come home and stay there the rest of the day, and they will still find something to complain about. They honestly just don't like me having fun.

And still, I can't wait until Two years fro now, I'll be in college, and I won't have to do shit with them, except for the occasional family fuction.

gr...
Rauni









Since: 08-14-04

Since last post: 149 days
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Posted on 03-24-05 08:49 AM Link | Quote
Well, well, well... Xeios, you aren't alone at all.

My mother bitch at me ALL of the time. In facts, half of time of I use, ended up being her slave and start bringing stuff to her everytime. I has to bring canned tomato, a pack of noodles, she screams everytime something doesn't work right, and well...

Funny part: She seriously yell any drivers and told them in vulgar languages, telling them to *uck off and so on... Try living with my mother, you would wish you would live with your parents instead. She said she is a nice person, I think she is so wrong when it come to people.

Beside, think as me getting whipped everytime when your parent scream, pretend that they say: "*ucking drivers! You can't possibly get a *ucking A on your *ucking driving test. HOW THE *UCK COULD YOU BE MORE STUPIDER!?"

Trust me, most adult are restricts. Lucky, my dad help me alot (which is kinda sad since I get to see him every two weekends unless he got something important.) So you should be lucky that your parents was supporting you by paying some taxes and stuff for you.

Sometime, parents don't want to see you grow up, seeing that you could rely on the computer for everything, education, cleaning your room, inviting some guests... Heck, they are so concerned about you, they might only expressed their feeling in anger. My mother alway does.
Xeios

You WANKER!








Since: 08-16-04

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Posted on 03-24-05 08:57 AM Link | Quote
My dad gets pissed off over nothing and jumps down my throat at the least resistance from me. My mom tells my little brothers that they need to leave her the fuck alone. Oh, and just to put this in perspective, my parents are much nicer to my little brothers than they are me.

I think they need to go to parenting classes, or have a fucking vacation or something. I'm sixteen I shouldn't want to run away, or sleep for four hours in the middle of the day because I've been limited in what I can do...(did that yesterday, I was told I couldn't go to a friend's house because I had to wait fro my grandpop(who didn't show up) So I slept from 3:30, until 7:30, or was it 6:30...)

I know some people have it worse than I do, but they are just becoming unreasonable. They used to be fun to talk to, but recently I think the sticks up their asses got a lot larger...
Lord Vulkas Mormonus

Vile
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Since: 10-29-04
From: North Carolina, United States. World, Sol System, milky way

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Posted on 03-24-05 10:00 AM Link | Quote
No offense, but this is a bit of an overreaction.

Go tothem, and say that since they don't want you to do something like that a lot, then don't.

Say that on school days, most of the time you can be at home, with only two hours of computer time, one hour with your friends, and devide the remaining time between being with them, and being outside.

It's a well balanced schedual, and it would follow what they want you to to, which from the sound of it is a mixture of things.
Xeoman

Ball and Chain Trooper
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Since: 08-14-04
From: 255

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Posted on 03-24-05 02:39 PM Link | Quote
It's not much of help, but this alwasy relieves some stress when I'm in similar situations.

You're 16. Only a few more years, and you can move out and live on your own and be ... free.

Something I'm defininently looking forward too.

"Being a Teenager sucks?"

I hate that saying. Why? In my opinion, I believe it's entirely the parents fault for making the "Teenagers life suck".
Boondock Saint

Paragoomba








Since: 08-31-04
From: Holiday Inn

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Posted on 03-27-05 04:52 PM Link | Quote
I agree with Vulkar this is just an overreaction. I mean if you really think their that bad of parents and you have the greatest urge to run away then do it, go live out on the streets for a week and maybe that will change your mind because it doesnt make things eaiser.

And you cant entirerly blame the parents either Xeo, not unless if you've been a parent and dealt with some of the things they have to go through.

Maybe you shouldnt be focused so much on freedom from your family, maybe you should be focused on cooperating with them instead. Your starting to sound like Edna from the awakening.
Xeoman

Ball and Chain Trooper
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Since: 08-14-04
From: 255

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Posted on 03-27-05 07:04 PM Link | Quote
Originally posted by Boondock Saint
I agree with Vulkar this is just an overreaction. I mean if you really think their that bad of parents and you have the greatest urge to run away then do it, go live out on the streets for a week and maybe that will change your mind because it doesnt make things eaiser.

And you cant entirerly blame the parents either Xeo, not unless if you've been a parent and dealt with some of the things they have to go through.

Maybe you shouldnt be focused so much on freedom from your family, maybe you should be focused on cooperating with them instead. Your starting to sound like Edna from the awakening.


I do family events -at least- every other weekend. From my parents and family, I'm still put into the "kids" group even when I'm 17. These events always overide my own plans with my friends.

Sorry, but I've just gotten sick of doing all this family stuff.
Katana

Dark Wizard
\"She said tonight...come on come on collide...see what I fire feels like..I bet its just like heaven.\"








Since: 08-15-04
From: Philadelphia, P.A.

Since last post: 159 days
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Posted on 03-27-05 10:03 PM Link | Quote
Xeios, I'm telling you right now, don't fuck around with the whole slitting of your wrists shit. I can't believe I saw this thread only now...I knew you were upset in school, but you also come to me when it's something serious, and you've never failed to do that, so I'm sorry that I didn't pick up no it...but now that I have, so... But dude...don't even kid about cutting or anything.

As far as your parents...it's not an overreaction if it's something that's bothering you. Talk about it and let people help you, unless then it really will be an overreaction if you're not going to accept help.

As far as parents...call me strange, but I actually want them. Yes, I want parents. But you know what? I don't have them. I know full-well how you're feeling, because when my mom and dad actually are there, it's only to cause aggrivation such as you're going through. So believe me, and you should know above all others here cuz you know me in person...please come to me so I can help you. I understand how you feel and I think I can help you.
Xeios

You WANKER!








Since: 08-16-04

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Posted on 03-29-05 09:43 AM Link | Quote
Yea, Kat, I know. And the only reason I didn't talk to you was I didn't want to burden you and I dont like everyone knowing about my private life. Like, I didn't want to tell you anything at school because Laurie and Kim were there. Then Dan came, and then everyone else. I would mich rather talk to someone one on one. And I think the only reason I posted this, was because I didn't think I could talk about it face to face with anyone...
Katana

Dark Wizard
\"She said tonight...come on come on collide...see what I fire feels like..I bet its just like heaven.\"








Since: 08-15-04
From: Philadelphia, P.A.

Since last post: 159 days
Last activity: 135 days
Posted on 03-29-05 01:16 PM Link | Quote
You shoulda pulled me aside and asked me to walk somewhere with you...or tell me you needed me after school...if something's up, I'll gladly take you tp Wendy's or something, just you and me and we'll work things out and make sure you're okay. Don't worry about money, because there's the phrase "I'll take you." so if you need me, just tell me please. If not, if you'd rather get it off your chest in the morning, pull me aside or something. I do it with Bryan all the time, and notice how no one says anything? Cuz if anyone had a problem with me going somewhere with a friend, or with them wanting to talk to me, they'll be taking that up with my fists.

So seriously...don't ever think that you can't come to me. I'm not going to push you to, because that can make things worse. Don't ever worry about burdening me....don't you ever think that, because you're not and you never will. Nuff said there. So I'm not going to push you. So you just make sure that you know now that I don't care if you call me 4 am or something, I'll always be there with no problem.
Xeios

You WANKER!








Since: 08-16-04

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Posted on 03-29-05 08:24 PM Link | Quote
Thanks Kat...

I just, never really liked saying things about myself to anyone. There are harly any people who know about me...The true me. I sort of put on a facade of cheerfullness, and I was having a bad day then...I just...Don't know what to do...

And I absolutely dislike talking face to face with someone about something which involves me. I am very supportive to others, and I am a great friend, but it really takes a true friend to notice when something is wrong...Thank you...
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