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Bitmap

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Since: 09-05-04
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Posted on 10-10-10 04:09 AM Link | Quote
Not sexually

This thread is designed for what do you want most out of the opposite/same sex. What are you looking for? What traits do you want to hold in your arms? What social skills do you want the most out of your partner?

What if I want to talk about Sexual things?

Now I dunno about this. But just to be safe; be sure to link all sexual stuff in spoilers. This is a 'General Discussion'. Not a "Hey I love it when her pussy is tight" or "I really love big dicks in my mouth" kinda thread. If you really want to share those with us. Go ahead and swallow your dignity and put that in spoiler tags if you really wish for that to happen.

What is there to discuss? All there could be is just a 'One post and I am done' kinda thread

Well here is where thing can be interesting. Not a "Oh hey I am interested" kinda deal. But there are many users here who are not the same sex as you are but who can give tips on how to broaden your horizons or talk about 'Oh, hey. You may set will with a friend of mine'. Who knows!?

What are you interested in Bitmap?

Well, I have gone though a lot of relationships but I guess here goes my kinda girl.

For starters. I would love a Tomboy.

A shy Tomboy. One who knows how to act tough but also has the same interest as me. But not everything though.

I also want a girl who is shy yes, but can communicate well. This is the fun and thrill for me. If I can get this girl to talk to me during a relationship. Then it's all I really need. Outgoing girls who right off the bat tell me everything? Not fun at all. I want to work for it. Not just sexually (Although it can be a plus) but mentally as well. I want to gain her trust. Her friendship. And most of all; her feelings. If a girl has a hard time communicating with me after all of this then forget it. You are of no use for me.

I guess you can say I would like to have a girl who has the same interest as I do. But is shy to say it. This way I can really feel her interest (No pun intended) but also share my own interest in which hoping to get conversation going.

To me, without communication. There can not be a relationship.

Who have you dated?

I am not going to list everyone I have dated here due to privacy and respect. So for now, stuff you may not have known I suppose.

I have dated goth chicks. Freaky chicks, and about two months ago had a chick who just straight up wanted sex. I declined all three. But there was that one that I grown attached with that just perked me.

The shy ones.

I dated a girl in the past who was not only good looking. But also had the same interest as me. Reason for breaking up? Back then she was too far away and I just felt that we should remain friends. Even after our breakup she would still flirt with me and I flirted back. I learned that she has had a baby reciently. But if she hadn't, I would love to get back in contact with her and seeing about maybe starting over. Alas, the story of her having a kid and engaged had me a little bummed out. But I would love to get the real scoop rather than hearing "Oh, she has a kid" from someone who barely knows her.

But the shy part about her was just plain cute. When we dated she never really wanted to go anywhere without her holding hands with me. And stayed close to me while doing so. Also; she was that type of girl to kinda 'hide' around my friends and was nervous while talking to them. Not because she felt intimidated or anything. But because she was just shy. Just that shy kinda girl that was afraid to put herself out there and talk with people. Also, she was a great kisser. That's another thing that to me is awesome about shy girls. They are always the best kissers.

So how about you?


(Last edited by Bitmap on 10-10-10 04:12 AM)
Katana

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Posted on 10-10-10 08:54 AM Link | Quote
Hmmm...for the record, the fact that this thread isn't meant for talk about sex or the like, makes this all the more interesting.

You know, Bitmap, it's also interesting to hear that someone would prefer a shy girl, as well as your reasons why. The intuitive aspect that can be a part of a relationship like that would be awesome.

With that said, I am NOT your kind of girl. XD 15 minutes with me would make you put me in the "friend zone" forever, IF it took THAT long even. XD Which, in a sense, is a "turn on". Since we're not exactly talking about sex, there are different types of turn ons. For example, different things turn me on to different types of relationships. The guy who would blantantly not like me as more than a friend, but shares interests with me and could treat me like "one of the guys" is definitely the "best friend" kind of candidate, and let's face it, we all need those too.

On the other end of the spectrum, to put it as simply as possible, I like the guy that knows to back the hell off and let me handle myself. It's not even about independence for the sake of it either. It's about the thrill I get out of getting out of my own problems, is all. **shrugs** The fastest way to push me away is to drown me and pull the "I have to take care of you." bullshit. Guys I've dated have jumped into that sort of persona WAY too fast. It's not even about being too proud. It's just that it's an intimate thing to let someone do, and well, that comes later. I'm fairly confrontational, and "fairly" is an understatement perhaps. I also speak my mind, but...I like the guy that appreciates that while I'm blunt right from the get go, but is interesting enough to see that it's only the small surface still.

I do quirky things, like walk right up to the gentleman at school, whom I made the conscious decision to do this to prior to doing it, and telling him that he's going to lunch with me. **shrugs** I then proceeded to buy lunch, and when he had a wee bit of a tiff about it, told him that I merely scored myself two days with him like that, because all this meant was that lunch was on him the next day. I also reminded him that I would find him and beat him up if he didn't oblige. The grin that pursed his lips at that moment. That's the heart-stopping moment for me. That's what makes me do the things that I do. (See, the being direct in telling someone they're going to lunch with me, that's the first move. The moves that follow, however, are only made if after some inspection, it seems that the guy would be further intrigued, or whathaveyou. I tend to quite often put my head down and sigh as I've watched my boldness show itself in other girls who just don't do it right. XD)

I'd rather not ramble on and on, so I'll stop talking on that note. Very interesting topic here though. I can't wait to see the input of others.
True Flight

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Posted on 10-10-10 08:55 AM Link | Quote
What if I want to talk about sexual things?
I take that to THAT forum. XD

What are you interested in True?
I guess this is a question about guys... I'm currently married so lets see... I'm into guys that bring the best out of me and make me a self motivator. So I can continue towards my goals in life. My husband continues to root me on from Georgia. Before I met my husband I wanted a guy who would hold me tight in bed and not lay their head on my temple. It hurts lol. I didn't want to deal with military guys and people from Harris County anymore. Look at what I got. The 04 graduate of Harris County High School who served in the Navy for six years. Oh and I LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOVED glasses. I still do. XD

Who have I dated?
In high school I dated three guys. One was a raver, one was a dork like me, and one was just plain weird. The weird one was too far away and I thought he was the one for me. Nope. I was wrong. I didn't want to be with him after all. I went into AIT and became a player. So I never really dated anybody in AIT until I got out of it.

When I left AIT I dated a HUGE FREEEEAK. OMG I thought I was going to crumble in his hands he was so rough. I was come back home with bite marks and scratches all over me. Nope not my forte. XD

I've dated the nice guy with emotional issues.

I've dated the handsome man with no emotions and just wanted sex.

After that I gave up on men and just wound up having fuck buddies for like the LONGEST time. Then I met my husband. Who dated an acquaintance of mine in high school.... ugh. Drama there too much. =P

SO yeah. Lots of fun times =P Especially the dates to the Pump it Up machine XD

My sister and I were so bad that we had a bet to see who could stand dating this douchebag the longest, Nagis would know who it was lol. Sadly, it was my sister that won.


(Last edited by True Flight on 10-10-10 08:56 AM)
Bitmap

#1 Enhancement Shaman US Ravenholdt








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Posted on 10-10-10 11:32 PM Link | Quote

My sister and I were so bad that we had a bet to see who could stand dating this douchebag the longest, Nagis would know who it was lol.


Two names come to mind. And I don't think neither one of them is who I am thinking.
Elara

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Posted on 10-11-10 10:37 AM Link | Quote
This seems like something that should have gone in the interviews, but okay...

What are you interested in, Elara?
Ok, I am gonna be honest here, it has taken me a long time to work through things and come up with the core things I look for. First off is honesty, I have been lied to so many times by past boyfriends, and nothing pisses me off more. Even lies to "protect my feelings", which are often the most painful ones. You want to win my heart, then treat me with respect and be bluntly honest... I am not a fragile little doll, I can take it. Sure, I may not be happy, but I will get over it and thank you for being honest. Second is open-minded, it irks me when people refuse to see an opinion other than their own, or let a preconception keep them from trying something new. Third is sense of humor, I joke around a lot, and I poke fun at things... if you cannot handle that then don't bother trying. Intellect, get one. Have opinions, think independently, read books, be able to debate with me. Patience, I hate people that get pissed when they have to wait for things, chill out. Nerdiness... I am not saying that you have to play D&D, though I would like it if you gave it a try, but I am a nerd so it helps if we have some of that in common. Nice eyes, it is a must, and a bit of squishiness when poked... I am self-conscious about my own weight so it helps if you are not a twig.

Who have I dated?

I have dated/gone after the gothy rocker type, the stoner, the quasi-jock, the shy manipulator, the hyper guy, the theater geek, the hard-core nerd, the outgoing actor, and the somewhat bitter sci-fi loving average nerd. I am engaged to that last one. He isn't tall dark and handsome. He is an inch shorter than me, average appearence, with long dark hair... very Russian Jew look... we joke that he looks like Jesus. Also can pull off Rob Zombie.
Kaijin Surohm
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Posted on 10-11-10 06:09 PM Link | Quote
Reading this stuff brings back a lot of memories, ahaha.

Theres been a few qualities I look for, and most people claim I have HIGH standards. I don't think of myself as a high standard individual, just Unique.

With me, you must not lie to me. I can't stand liars. If you don't wish to tell me something, that's fine, just don't freaking lie to me about it. I'm not one to pry in someone's privacy and expect you to talk.

Someone I can laugh with. If your someone I rarly talk to, or just sit there sitting at one another doing nothing, theres not much room for furthing one's current path. While I do look for someone I could be content just sitting next to and not having to talk, but someone has to, and quite a bit of the time, if I have to, it's because the other person managed to make it ackward for me. That's not cool. And no, that dosn't mean I will never talk in a conversation, I'm just one who has difficulty starting one. Some people have a talent of just sitting there, and all is peachy, others though, make it feel weird.

She has to be someone who can push me to be better. Someone who can challenge me to do what needs to be done, without being dominating about it. I can't stand the idea of being with someone who just agrees with everything-I-freaking-say x.X I still can't believe I found someone who did that, and I made quite a bit of space between me and that girl.

Speaking of that girl, if I'm interested in you, and you start spouting off that you want to have my kids, and I havn't even considered dating you yet: NO! God No. x.x And yes, it's possible to be interested in someone, and not wanna date them. Yer just curious as to know them a bit better.

You need a good personality. Simple? Not so much. If you're constently negative, that the world sucks, I won't care. If I can make you smile, then theres a good sign. I'm socked at how hard it is to find someone who isn't usually moody over something. (no offense ladies, but the girls here in oregon... good fucking god x.X 24 hour PMS)

Someone who is fairly intelligent. I'm not talking ms. brain of the year, but can be smart AND logic if she wanted to, not because she has to.


Finally, this one is a bit akward, but considering I'm about that age to be considering these things... You have to be someone I could see be a good mother.

A lot of you who know me would probably have just craped their drawers at what I just said there, knowing how I do NOT want kids. But if in that off chance, I really would never wish ill upon that child I conceive, and wish to give it everthing. That includes a mother who can raise the kid better then I can.


The optional stuff? Well...
This list is optional (many have not met up with this list, and I didn't mind)
Body tone (Any guy would like a girl in shape >.> Any girl would like a guy in shape. Or girl to girl, or guy to guy... Or if you in to it, farmer to sheep >.> Don't judge me <.< )
Facial Peircing (eye brow, tongue, lip, nose, neck. Hell, anything but the ears I HATE. Massive turn off to me.)
Poorly placed tatoos (x.x eeeewww )
Tramp Stamps (Feels like I should pay you after sex)
I wish she was a Geek of some sorts ^.^
True Flight

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Posted on 10-12-10 09:34 AM Link | Quote
lol You're crazy.

You know for a tramp stamp I was thinking about putting the dog from duck hunt laughing back there. =P

Anyway Kaijin. I WANT TO HAZ UR BABEYZ ZOMG
Cteno

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Posted on 10-12-10 12:33 PM Link | Quote
The likes...

Well, I'm a weird guy to say this, but I really like a girl who has good looking hair. Now, I have my own standards for what's good looking but just about anything that can be considered "goth" looks great to me!

As far as the girl being a goth... Well, I've never actually met one so I wouldn't know. I'm a big fan of skirts and leggings, however, and I've seen some goth outfits that would make me squeal and blush!

Outside of the gothic subculture, the things that drive me completely wild are striped panties and a matching pair of stockings/leggings. Without the stripes, I could care less... It's definitely unexplainable. Hell, you could take a Sharpie and just draw the damn things on and I think it would work!

I like girls who are either fairly short or about my height (which is rare, I'm 6'2"). They can't be rail-thin either, like what is shown to be "sexy" on television, they have to have some kind of meat at least. I'm not exactly a chubby-chaser, but I definitely don't rule out the curvy beauties.

I'm a sucker for a girl who has intelligence. A girl who is attending a college simply to learn more is right up my alley.

I love a girl who likes to cuddle as much as I do, but unfortunately, I haven't found a single one yet.

When she's interested in the macabre and all things dark, it's also more brownie points from me.

I like piercings quite a bit and as long as it's not crazy overboard then I don't mind.

Finally... It's a must to have a girl who appreciates how much I care for them. My last relationship got rocky because I cared so much. I'm still fairly broken up over this because it's fairly recent and I still care deeply for her but I'm just leaving her alone until she's ready to talk to me again.

On to the dislikes...

I hate it when people lie to me, especially when a girl lies to me to make herself sound interesting in an attempt to attract my attention. I would rather have honesty, or when I say "Really?" she would say, "No, not really! ".

I love to spoil my girlfriends but I hate it when they start expecting to be spoiled. I'm sorry, but when you start acting like Little Miss Princess, that starts to bug me.

Also, don't cake on the makeup. Your skin will look even worse if you do that all the time. I like a girl who's not ashamed at her natural beauty, but on the other hand, I like makeup on the occasion where it adds something that isn't natural, like heavy eyeliner and pretty much anything that would make other people point and yell "FREAK!". I like it when she dares to be different, obviously, even if it means ridicule from peers.

I hate it when the girl I'm with hates it that I love cuddling 24/7 and calls me clingy and when I back off for an hour she says that I don't pay enough attention to her or don't care about her. Seriously, even if they're teasing it really hurts!
insectduel

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Posted on 10-14-10 03:23 PM Link | Quote
OK, this seems like the fun way to talk.


What if I want to talk about Sexual things?

I am sexually active whenever I watch something from my own eyes which makes me a sexually active guy.

What are you interested in Rondell?

I never call myself Insectduel outside of the internet world or whenever I play Duel monsters. Well, I have gone though a lot of relationships during high school days and the present.

I am more into Asian females, especially Japanese Asians and/or mixed Japanese Black/African American.

The only females I ever known is Reni Mimura, Chieli Kajiwara, and Myu. All Japanese Asian females and also professional dancers. The 3 of them sometimes come into me, well I am the attractive person AM I. Sometimes they spoke, flirt, and even hold my hand. I mostly like to treat them as friends.

Most of the church services, a Caucasian blonde female is always happy to see me. I also done the same thing around.

The main point is, I am looking for someone who treated me as a true friend and a long-term relationship. If I do get myself a Japanese female of my own, then I would marry them.

Who have you dated?

I dated a couple of females during high school but some of them are weird. And I missed most of the scheduled dates in the present year.
Bitmap

#1 Enhancement Shaman US Ravenholdt








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Posted on 10-15-10 01:54 AM Link | Quote
Originally posted by Lord Nelrith the Badass

Also, don't cake on the makeup. Your skin will look even worse if you do that all the time. I like a girl who's not ashamed at her natural beauty


This.

Ladies. 99.9% of the time us guys really like your natural look more than putting on your face. I love a girl who does not wear makeup. If she looks good on makeup, then damn son.
Xeoman

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Posted on 10-15-10 02:35 AM Link | Quote
Originally posted by Bitmap
Originally posted by Lord Nelrith the Badass

Also, don't cake on the makeup. Your skin will look even worse if you do that all the time. I like a girl who's not ashamed at her natural beauty


This.

Ladies. 99.9% of the time us guys really like your natural look more than putting on your face. I love a girl who does not wear makeup. If she looks good on makeup, then damn son.

I mostly just like some eye liner or whatever, bringing out the eyes a bit. But yeah that's about it.
Cteno

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Posted on 10-15-10 02:49 AM Link | Quote
Originally posted by Lord Xeusalexanders VII
Originally posted by Bitmap
Originally posted by Lord Nelrith the Badass

Also, don't cake on the makeup. Your skin will look even worse if you do that all the time. I like a girl who's not ashamed at her natural beauty


This.

Ladies. 99.9% of the time us guys really like your natural look more than putting on your face. I love a girl who does not wear makeup. If she looks good on makeup, then damn son.

I mostly just like some eye liner or whatever, bringing out the eyes a bit. But yeah that's about it.

I definitely like eye liner and mascara but that's about it. Maybe some eye shadow here or there too, but when I can smell the stuff that's when we have a problem.

Also, I think lipstick looks just plain silly 99% of the time.
Xeoman

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Posted on 10-15-10 03:13 AM Link | Quote
Originally posted by Lord Nelrith the Badass
Originally posted by Lord Xeusalexanders VII
Originally posted by Bitmap
Originally posted by Lord Nelrith the Badass

Also, don't cake on the makeup. Your skin will look even worse if you do that all the time. I like a girl who's not ashamed at her natural beauty


This.

Ladies. 99.9% of the time us guys really like your natural look more than putting on your face. I love a girl who does not wear makeup. If she looks good on makeup, then damn son.

I mostly just like some eye liner or whatever, bringing out the eyes a bit. But yeah that's about it.

I definitely like eye liner and mascara but that's about it. Maybe some eye shadow here or there too, but when I can smell the stuff that's when we have a problem.

Also, I think lipstick looks just plain silly 99% of the time.

Man it's probably me being stupid but I laughed a bit here with you knowing all of that stuff, haha.

But yeah, all that stuff is good. Just with some moderation.
Bitmap

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Posted on 10-15-10 04:06 AM Link | Quote
Makeup sucks can we all agree on that
天国JOE

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Posted on 10-15-10 05:38 PM Link | Quote
I have no interest in ordinary humans. If there are any aliens, time travelers, or espers around, come join me.
Kaijin Surohm
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Posted on 10-15-10 05:57 PM Link | Quote
So begins the invasion of Haruhi Suzumiya x.X
Xeoman

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Posted on 10-15-10 06:28 PM Link | Quote
Originally posted by Bitmap
Makeup sucks can we all agree on that

Mostly yeah, not a fan of lipstick at all personally.

On a random note this has been something I've been set on for years, but I like women with their hair up. It pretty much never fails. I still can't figure out exactly why, I just do.

Other than that I don't feel I have a real right to respond here with no real encounters yet, so yeah.
Elara

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Posted on 10-18-10 08:48 AM Link | Quote
I am with you guys 100% on the make-up thing. When I have to wear lipstick it feels like I am rubbing grease on my lips... rubbery grease. Chap stick and lip gloss are okay, but even then I rarely bother with it. Also, foundation and blush... I don't get it. It never looks natural unless you spend tons of cash on high end stuff and a good make-up artist and it clogs your pours. I love black eyeliner though, and I always will even though I don't use it often anymore. Eyeshadow is good but I lean towards natural shades for the most part... quite the departure from my high school days of black eyeshadow.
Bitmap

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Posted on 06-29-11 02:14 AM Link | Quote
Bumping cause I kinda met someone who shares the same ideas as I do.

Basically we met after a really good party. I was the drinker and one of the youngest girls was about my age and hey we both had a lot in common!

After separating with my usual drinking buddies and kinda pushed myself in hanging out with her and we were talking about stuff. Eventually we watched James Bond together and we were laughing it up.

After the whole party was over we decided to take a date on Thursday. I'm taking her out for a dinner and a movie. Yep.

E- Kinda funny that the only person not drinking was her and that I wasn't drinking that much.

Still cute as hell though.


(Last edited by Bitmap on 06-29-11 02:15 AM)
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I want more drinking buddies and less druggy friends.

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