New link in the top of page "IRC Chat".
Register | Login
Views: 135416291
 Main | Memberlist | Active users | Calendar | Last Posts | IRC Chat | Online users
Ranks | FAQ | XPW | Stats | Color Chart | Photo album 		11-21-24 02:29 PM
0 users currently in Sunset Waterfall.
Xeogaming Forums - Sunset Waterfall - Yeah, he says I'm the douche-bag. | |
Next newer thread | Next older thread
User Post
Stitch

Roy Koopa
Holy crap, it is the RoboCoonie!








Since: 08-20-04
From: California

Since last post: 933 days
Last activity: 933 days
Posted on 10-02-09 02:06 AM Link | Quote
This is mostly adult stuffs related to roommate things and reasonable time frames.

My ex-roommate says I'm a selfish, self-centered, egotistical, bitch and douche bag. This is true sometimes. But not this time.

Here's a chronology of what I've done to qualify in his eyes:


  1. I decided to move on Monday. (Sep 21st)

  2. I made a security deposit on Wednesday. (Sep 23rd)

  3. I played a video game with him on Thursday. (Sep 24th)

  4. I told him I was moving on Friday. (Sep 24th)

  5. I made him decide on either signing a roommate withdrawal or a 30-day notice, on Saturday. (Sep 25th) He fought me on signing either for two hours. Then pleaded that I should stay until January to make it two years, and that if I move, he won't be able to help me out. (The patronizing ass. He hasn't helped me to the degree he thinks.)

  6. I paid my full share of rent a whole week prior. (Before Sep 21st)

  7. I informed him, with two-week notice (Sep 25th), that I was disconnecting the Comcast service and moving it to my new apartment on the 7th of October.

  8. I informed him, that once I complete my move, I'm staying in my new apartment for the rest of the month. (Sep 30th)

  9. I informed him that I'm paying my share of utilities through the end of the month, despite the fact that I won't be there the full month. (Oct 1st)

  10. I offered to help him find a roommate. He declined. (Sep 25th)

  11. I offered to help him move. He declined. (Sep 25th)

  12. By paying my full share of rent, he ended up paying $225 less than he normally does.

  13. I asked him not to pay his share of Comcast, as I was transferring service and that wouldn't be fair to him. (Sep 19th)

  14. I wrote him a Thank You note for helping me in the last 18 months. He didn't read it. (Sep 24th)

  15. I offered to pay back the full $320.50 I owe him, and even made out a money order. He didn't accept it. (Sep 25th)

  16. I informed him that if he were staying, I'd just transfer Comcast services to him. He called me a self-centered, egotistical douche. (Oct 1st)



Now, he feels betrayed and hurt. He's treating this like a divorce, when it's just a roommate moving out. He's not being rational in e-mails and calling me a douche or a jerk or something each time. I move in six days, but it's going to be a LOOOOONNNNGGGG six days.

FUCK HIM and his shit.
Katana

Dark Wizard
\"She said tonight...come on come on collide...see what I fire feels like..I bet its just like heaven.\"








Since: 08-15-04
From: Philadelphia, P.A.

Since last post: 1554 days
Last activity: 1371 days
Posted on 10-02-09 02:11 AM Link | Quote
>.o Makes me wanna reconsider dealing with a roommate...

Sorry he's giving you a hard time...but...if you say that what he's called you is true sometimes....then, shit...you'll be fine in life. You never did seem to be afraid to hold up a big middle finger (be it figuratively, or literally) and do what you need/want to anyway.

And for that, I say, good for you.

And if I'm wrong about you...good for you anyway. You're still awesome.

Oh...and...beat this guy up.
Elara

Divine Mamkute
Dark Elf Goddess
Chaos Imp
Penguins Fan
Ms. Invisable








Since: 08-15-04
From: Ferelden

Since last post: 99 days
Last activity: 99 days
Posted on 10-02-09 02:19 AM Link | Quote
Wow, it's like a clingy boyfriend. Honestly, while you can be a jerk sometimes (and proud of it, I might add) I agree that this time you did absolutely nothing wrong.

Why did you decide to move in the first place, might I ask?
Stitch

Roy Koopa
Holy crap, it is the RoboCoonie!








Since: 08-20-04
From: California

Since last post: 933 days
Last activity: 933 days
Posted on 10-05-09 07:36 PM Link | Quote
The OCD demands it. I can't control my environment if my roommate's being an ass. And, it frustrates me that he doesn't take certain matters seriously, particularly when dealing with the apartment.

We, as in all the tenants, were served three-day-pay or quit notices last month. He just shrugged it off saying it would fix itself. Um, does he not understand what a three-day notice to evict is?

Anyway, it was an error that was corrected, but you don't just shrug it off. There's also a whole slew of other things that he started doing that finally just made me want to move out. Sure, he can have friends over EVERY NIGHT, but he gets all uppity when I have Rogue or MY MOM over for a week with A TWO WEEK NOTICE THAT I WAS GOING TO HAVE THEM when he never gives me notice of his little get-togethers.

Essentially, boy needs to grow up mentally, and I'm hoping my moving out will do it. He is acting like this is a divorce or a breakup, but it's nothing of the sort. I am merely moving out.

I just want my own place again. To decorate and run as I please, and let people that I like stay over when they need it or whatever.
Next newer thread | Next older thread
Xeogaming Forums - Sunset Waterfall - Yeah, he says I'm the douche-bag. |



xeogaming.org

AcmlmBoard 1.92++ r4 Baseline
?2000-2013 Acmlm, Emuz, Blades, Xkeeper, DarkSlaya*, Lord Alexandor*
*Unofficial Updates
Page rendered in 0.115 seconds.
0.033