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Cyro Xero

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Since: 02-23-05
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Posted on 04-18-09 01:00 PM Link | Quote
So, I was browsing some of the super old threads from around 4 years ago, around the time I joined this place. Came across one about sex. Maybe some of you guys remember it.

http://xeogaming.org/thread.php?id=4701&page=0

After reading several of our posts, it made me wonder: what do you guys think about the topic of sex now? Some of us were fairly young back then, and even still in high school, so we may have not fully understood it. But now that were all older.....Thoughts??


(Last edited by Astrophel on 04-18-09 06:01 PM)
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Posted on 04-18-09 06:02 PM Link | Quote
Fixed your link for you.
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Since: 08-14-04
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Posted on 04-18-09 06:15 PM Link | Quote

...I probably wouldn't even tell anyone if I happened to have sex or whatever, unless I was married or something (that's a duh then).

Not quite sure what I was thinking here, lol.
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Since: 08-15-04
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Posted on 04-18-09 06:49 PM Link | Quote
I haven't really changed at all from my post back then. Maybe because I was already in my 20s by that point. I have learned just how much power sex has over people since then though... it is really kinda sad.
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Since: 09-02-04
From: Destroy Tower

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Posted on 04-18-09 09:57 PM Link | Quote
Originally posted by Elara
it is really kinda sad.
I would die for sex!

<33333333333333333333
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Since: 08-15-04
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Posted on 04-18-09 10:51 PM Link | Quote
*pats Junpei on the head*

Of course you would, sweatie. Of course you would.
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Since: 08-17-04

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Posted on 04-19-09 02:29 AM Link | Quote
Hmmm, in that thread I pretty much just posed the question.

I'm not much different. I'm still with the same person I was with then (we hit our 5-year mark today, actually), but I too have seen more and more people succumb to another's bullshit because the sex is decent or, to say the very least, that they're getting some at all.

I'm trying to remember the frame of mind I was in when I wrote out that question, though. I was 20. I had just done 2 conventions (Rocky Con and Anime Expo), was preparing for Labyrinth Masquerade and another big convention within a week after that. And all at the same time, Brandon was on a 3-week long trip with his dad a few states over.

Chances are I was starved for male affection at that point and was fed up watching some of the people I'd seen at the conventions acting like douches about their "rosters." Especially with Rocky Con where so many of the guys just spent it trying to bag as much pussy as they could.

Anyway, since that post I've just resigned myself to thinking that's just the way people are. I don't brag about my numbers. In fact I don't even think about my past relationships or any of that at all.

In short, I've got the same thoughts, but I've become quite a bit more jaded, I guess.
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Posted on 04-19-09 03:46 AM Link | Quote
Originally posted by One Shot One Kill
I for one am not sex driven.........

......

Ofcourse I'm probably still in the stages of going through life with out it til marriage. The thing is I'm afraid it'll be like a Hershey bar. Once you finish it you'll want another one, then another, then another, and then another. You see... I actually FEAR sex before marriage. It's a paranoia I deal with everyday.

hahahahahaha. Out of all the people here. I'm the most hypocritical. Can't believe I waited til I was 19 to start up a sex life.
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Since: 08-15-04
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Posted on 04-19-09 03:55 PM Link | Quote
My boyfriend waited til he was 27, don't feel bad.

Your old post makes me want a Hershey bar, damn you.
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Since: 02-23-05
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Posted on 04-20-09 06:41 AM Link | Quote
Yeah, I figured some of you might have changed. I've always been the same with it. I don't feel any different about sex now than I did back then. It may have something to do with the fact that I was already in my mid-twenties, but in my mind I know I like it. I won't ever deny liking it. And I still think sex with someone you love will always be better than having it with random people (partially because you and your s/o can experiment together and not feel weird about it). And I'm sure there are benefits to the latter.
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Posted on 04-21-09 12:36 PM Link | Quote
You know, as I think on it a bit more, my perspectives on sex have shifted a bit.

I've reached a point in my life where I don't see sex as just sex any more. It's become more of an expression of intimacy.

While I know there's primal, pure lust, no attachment, AMAZING sex, that just isn't for me any more.

A friend of mine's girlfriend has been spending the past few months surfing Craig's List for a girl to get in on a threesome with them. While I get that threesomes are a turn-on for some couples, I just can't do it.

Aside from the fact that I'm straight or just not interested in a threesome, I've lost my ability to divorce intimacy from sex. In my mind, I can't mix something that I have with Brandon with a primal urge for someone else. While it's possible for others, it isn't for me. And it reflects on my outlook of sex, in general.

That's not to say that this is a new concept after being in a long-term relationship. It's just that after thinking about it, this notion did sort of start early on and has blossomed fully into, "I just don't think I could be with anyone sexually if I didn't truly have feelings for them."

Yeah, sex is great. I know it is.

But sex with someone you love is like... thousands of times better.

You know, especially if they know what you like.

Also, I should add that, pleasing someone you love, sexually, is also so much more gratifying. Mmmm...
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Posted on 04-21-09 06:48 PM Link | Quote
I think a threesome would be legendary, me being the only guy involved of course.

Dunno what I would've thought about that back then in that thread though.

It'd probably be a little awkward before it starts/once it's over though, unless all three parties are really into the idea of it or something, dunno.

Also, I'm a guy. So yeah.


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Posted on 04-22-09 12:26 AM Link | Quote
Originally posted by Xeu
I think a threesome would be legendary, me being the only guy involved of course.

Dunno what I would've thought about that back then in that thread though.

It'd probably be a little awkward before it starts/once it's over though, unless all three parties are really into the idea of it or something, dunno.

Also, I'm a guy. So yeah.

*raises hand* fun stuff... >>
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Posted on 04-23-09 12:12 AM Link | Quote
Originally posted by One Shot One Kill
*raises hand* fun stuff... >>
Fuck yes it is.

...if it wasn't blurred by booze. D=
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Since: 02-23-05
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Posted on 04-23-09 08:35 AM Link | Quote
Guess I'll never know.
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