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| Meh Posts: 1/1 |
Well, some people move on with life. They develop alot of skills in life to where some people grow up faster than others. Quite possiably, maybe that person dosent wish to look back at those things. You have to look at things in two perspectives, you, and the person you posted about.
Maybe he moved on with life, maybe he diddnt, and maybe he dosent care weather or not he looks back on friendships. Its a fact of life to grow stronger and meet new people. If one or the other cant drop the past, no one can move on, and shit would just be brought up to where drama would arise. If you look at your past with old friendships, it will just slow you down; Instead, you should learn something from it and just grow stronger. Go ahead and do what you have to do...Just dont expect good results when you do decide to see that person |
| Rauni Posts: 1117/1351 |
Sometimes, thing are the way it is. It can't be helped during the past and it's alright to worry... But the real question is: "Why do I care about him?", not "Why am I concerned about him?"
Those two questions have different meanings, you can't really expect people to go your way. Just think as this way, if you have someone on your mind that you can't drop out of your life that it's over to begin with, it must be someone who you still have feeling before. But as we progress, we change. But keep in reminder, you can what you can do. It is the matter of how that certain people see it in you. There will be some regrets, some hatred, and some betrayals, but these can't be helped as some needs those to "live" without punishment. True, if you want to help him and want this pain to over, just see him directly. Give yourself a chance to talk to him and heck... offer him help when he probably need one. Apologize (sometime, I do this often) for arguing/having your friendship destroyed in the process. Life shouldn't be about how we hates people just because of the problem you had before on the board, it should be about communication and understanding feeling. And one more thing... There is nothing wrong with you. If any, I would say you have a generous and caring heart. Just try to establish friendship with him ASAP. Just leaving this alone will bring out a slow yet spiritually pain over time. Just because there are some people who will prevent you from meeting Sajin doesn't mean you should let them stop you. Do what you think is right and visit him if you still have those feeling for him. |
| True Flight Posts: 2352/5245 |
It may be something wrong with me or something. Or perhaps it's something about me that likes the abuse he gives out bit by bit. Or maybe it's because I have this huge innocent heart. Or maybe... I'm just a fool.
You know that feeling? Why am I concerned with him? I check his journals. There are no updates. I search words on the internet like "SairutoShrine" and come up with a lot of stuff he's done. I actually came close to seeing his face clearly. I really wish to know how he is. I really do. But like my sister and family say, "He's in his own little fish bowl now. All you can do is look in, but you can't get involved." Why do I have to deal with that? I want to actually talk to him and feel that I CAN talk to him like he was my brother, just like before. I honestly can't though. From what I hear about him. I'm so successful and he's just scootin' by. Everytime I hear How to Save a Life, I just think about all the people who really don't like me. I want to tell each one of them I'm sorry, but I didn't do anything to appologize for. The drill sergeants made me talk about this to the Chaplain, so I kept it as small a problem as possible. It just... It just makes me want to scream. I get so mad, upset, and sad thinking about it. I want to pick him up and help him out. I really do. |
