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| Broken Dreams Posts: 241/371 |
I agree with Elara and shanan *tears* I admire you spirits! |
| Rauni Posts: 418/1351 |
What Kaijin said.
It is pointless to see someone so popular and be afraid the popular people will reject you. Heck, if it is does help you, many of my friends (mostly females) believe that I am "popular" because of my brother. Because I am shy and more of a private person in real life, I never did consider myself popular after my brother went away. Anyway, when I did meet one of the girl in my Earth Science Class, I was even too afraid to know that I would not date her. So I have to act quickly, otherwise, I would built my head in shame. I did ask her, but she reject the offer. Was I happy to hear that? No, but I was happy to know that I built all of my courage to ask and hopefully someone like you can learn to be couragable to ask straight on, regardless of what she have. She was honest with me, so I take her answer without a problem, and both of us was happy. Popular? Who cares! Deaf? Screw that! Learning disabilities? Fuck that. Anything else you like about her? ASK HER OUT! She would be admires by your courage and strength, so JUST... ASK... HER... OUT!!! You are mostly likely to achieve in two different end results, both can be good! One, you success! Two, you were able to face head on of you fear! Keep that in mind. |
| Kaijin Surohm Posts: 367/1852 |
ug... Ok, I'll be straight to the point.
Fuck the fact she's popular. Just get the hell out there and ask! If it works, then you will no longer be deemed anything below a non popular kid. if it dosn't, then it wasn't ment to be, but for god sakes, stop moping around about it. |
| Elara Posts: 1409/9736 |
Here is the question that is more important if she is popular:
Do you want to ask her out because you honestly like her and share interests with her, or is it because she is cute and popular? If it is option number 2, hang your head in shame and don't even try. If it is the first one, then just go ahead and ask her out... invite her to something you both enjoy or something. If it is easier, strike up a conversation over a shared interest and thus get better aquainted first... it is also a good way to calm your nerves. Just be yourself and if she seems to like that, then go for it... if she doesn't, then let it go. Never be something that you are not just to be with someone else, that is a rule all should follow, and it took me a long time to learn it. And you know, venomouslobster's post, odd though it may be, is actually quite helpful and accurate. Don't go for the girl who is obviously doing things just for attention like dressing in ways that are super-revealing. Go for the ones that are a bit more modest. |
| Broken Dreams Posts: 234/371 |
so? just because she knows more people doesn't mean anything. =/ are you in jr high? |
| Gannondorf Posts: 26/32 |
OK here goes SHE IS POPULAR and IM NOT POPULAR |
| Broken Dreams Posts: 233/371 |
I know I have bad spelling but can you please try a little harder to see what your typing, it's very hard to understand what your saying...
it depends how you view a popular girl there is actually all different kinds of popular girls but some of them are quite snoty and rude so I would give up on a girl that has alot of friends and knows alot of guys because most likely she will get any guy she wants when she wants. so try to go out with a girl that ha sthe same intreast as you. |
| (Neo)-Sage Posts: 32/64 |
sup yall
dude i know how ya feel about asking girls out. i get nervous and just sometimes wont even talk to some becasue i like them and all. but heres what you could possible think of doing.... 1. have a good sex appeal. (some girls like you for what you wear) 2. be as nice as you can around them. 3. dont do anything that is stupid around your friends or she will thing you just an ass. 4. do thing to help them out and not just anyone else and your self. and the last and most impotant rule to me...... 5. be yourself!!!!!!!! |
| Broken Dreams Posts: 225/371 |
if I liked someone and had a hard time saying it over the phone or in person Ie them a note and hand it to them, I say that's an easy way if you like the girl adn want to go out with her, write her a note or something. |
| Black Lord Posts: 53/100 |
Sometimes girls totally dig the shy way of asking them out, my gf said she totally loved it because she felt that I was asking her out cause I truely liked her and not because I just wanted to hook up with her (which it would seem like if you were cocky and arrogant). |
| venomouslobster Posts: 161/444 |
i know much on this subject, as i have asked a few womens out in my day, and some of them did not actually chase me out of the town with pitchforks. andsince i spent a few hours watching men drunkenly hit on a few ladies the other night, i can say that when you are asking out women at a masquerade ball, do not ask the girl only wearing nipple pasties,,,,,,no no no....a wise man askes her cute friend who does not have her chest hanging out...the nipple pasty girl is only there to be stared at!!! |
| BrokenShards Posts: 12/12 |
Its actually kinda easy to ask girls out...i mean yes, it can be quite nerve wrecking, but it's not that bad if you're only asking out girls you allready know. Don't ask out complete strangers, because those relationships never work. But just walk up to them and ask them to go do something with you, and then a little while later when you're sure everything is cool, ask them if they want to go out with you. Thats how I've done it, and it works. |
| Katana Posts: 400/3649 |
**giggles** Hey, women make men sound like creatures, so it's fair game.  But I agree on the smelling fear part.
Well, just like boys, not all girls are the same either. I personally find shyness to be sweet. Only so much though. The considerate kind of shyness is what I'm talking about though, if that makes sense. But anywho...like said before...just be yourself.  Look at it this way...there's no point in a relationship if you're not happy. So, fighting to be something your not will take it's toll on you and wear you down. Thus making you unhappy. So that's reason enough to be yourself. It's a bit redundant, in my opinion, if you're not.
Kai's right. Just go for it. Worst that could happen is a "no", and I know it's easier said than done, but just say "okay" and move on. |
| Kaijin Surohm Posts: 347/1852 |
Never blame yourself.
Just because you think that theres something wrong with you, dosn't mean there is. Everyone has trouble when asking girls (or guys) out in one moment in life or another. And truth be told, its not ASKING them thats the problem, your subconciesly(sp?) afraid of the awnser. Something I learned that acctually helped when it came to asking someone out. I learned that when you ask a girl out, they will acctually give you a soft letdown. (Worst case senario is they flat out say No.) If your dumb enough to ask a total stranger out, then the worst case senario is public humiliation. Your going to need some self confidence. The Female side can SMELL fear. They know when your afraid or nervous. (Not to make women sound like creatures, but every one I've run into can smell when someone has no self confidence.) The term "Grow some Balls" comes into play here. It means stop being nearvous bout this stuff, and just go for it. By being a walking train wreak, you'll be lucky to get a "I'll think about it". |
| Déesse Posts: 642/958 |
Everyone is nervous when it comes to asking someone out or being asked out. I would have to say to go with Makura advise, just be yourself and if being yourself doesn't do it then that person isn't the right one for you. |
| Makura Posts: 406/1555 |
I agree asking girls out is fucking nerve racking. Of course my opinion is different. My advice is to just be yourself and try to appeal to what you think they like. |
| 天国JOE Posts: 354/2999 |
*Gets blown away by the all caps title*
Okay, okay, don't need to scream. I suffer the same thing, I get nervous with these things. I'm not nervous with girls, just with the whole dating thing...hm. I have plenty of girl friends, but...bah. I personally don't really find the urge to date right now. To young, not into it, I would like to enjoy these times first before I get hooked with someone. But just try something simple. Like ask if you could walk them home, and ask then. Or, instead of jumping into the bandwagon and flat out asking "go out with me?", ask if she would like to do something sometime. A date. And if it goes smooth, do it a few more times until you know it could work past a week or two. |
| Kard Ayals Posts: 436/2915 |
This would go in Sunset....
*Moves* |
| Gannondorf Posts: 24/32 |
I didnt know where to post
need help asking girls out. I get nervous and cant ask them out . FACE IT BRAIN : I CANT ASK THEM OUT |
