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Xeios
Posts: 278/2954
Yea, Katana. If any of you saw us in person you would come to on eof three conclusions,

1--We are great friends.


2--We want to kill each other and piss each other off as much as possible.


3-- We are two extremely hyper people who, if left alone for a long period of time, could probably take over the world...

*huggles Katana*

See, we wuv each udder...

In a non-attracted to kind of way of course...
Kaijin Surohm
Posts: 172/1852
Life in general has been one let down after another. You get close to someone, they manage to stab you in the back one way or another. Parents with their supirior attitude crap, friends with their immature attitudes, love life with the constent rejections.

And I won't go into how theres nothing out there in life to look forward too...
(Sleep, work, sleep, work, sleep, work, repeat)

So I just relay on myself. Sure theres people out there who would listen to my problems, but every last one of them would stab me in the back on moments notice, and completly turn on me for the most stupid of crap. Most of it that they arn't even involved in.

My life, my responsibilty. Having someone else carry my burdens helps noone.
Gir
Posts: 5/11
I don't depend on anyone. It'd be nice if i had a close friend that i felt like i could talk to, and i used to have one like that, then they became an almost completely different person, so i have no one now. Sure i've got my girlfriend, but we're not that close. I get depressed sometimes, and it really sucks because there's no one there to talk to. And I definitely can't talk to my parents. Why? Because thats like a joke. My parents never tried to get close to me, so i don't try to talk to them about anything thats important to me, because they'd probably disapprove of it. So i guess i'm basically screwed in this area...but whatever. I don't really care. It feels like I've almost reached the bottom, but i know from previous experiences that after you hit bottom things usually improve pretty quickly.
Xeoman
Posts: 638/11751
At least I'm not alone now ...
Astrophel
Posts: 128/2724
Emotionally unstable, yet I depend on myself. Why?

Mom? Hah. Conversation with her is not communication - communication requires both parties to listen, something she does not do.

Dad? He's in Afghanistan, and even when he is here he doesn't ever seem to take anything seriously.

Grandma? Ahahahahah... see comments about dad.

Other family? See comments about mom or dad.

Friends? I'm trying to get in touch with one of them again, and the other I can only talk to online (he was an offline friend, then he moved.) The first one rarely takes anything seriously, and the second one... well, typing things doesn't always help, y'know? And finding more? People around here, well.. I'll just say that I expected our trailer to be egged on Halloween night and leave it at that. =/

So yeah, I've got me. That's it.

I don't mind admitting that I need to have someone there for me emotionally. But, I don't have that, so I'm gonna have to stuggle along alone for a while. Ah well, nothing I'm not used to.

Now, financially my mother... well, my stepfather. No, my mother. See, dad's earning the money, mom's the one spending it. So it's sort of both of them. Remember, dad's in Afghanistan, so he can't really spend it. But, I would assume my financial reliance on my parents to be obvious, as I'm sure many of the active members know how old I am. So why am I saying this? To lengthen an already needlessly long post.
Katana
Posts: 58/3649
My comments on the subject are a bit strange I guess...First and formost, I depend on myself...but depending on myself also includes knowing when I can't do it myself and need someone else. Well, that's something I'm having difficulty learning, but I'm trying.

As for financial aid...well, it certainly isn't my parents. My dad doesn't pay a dime...and he should...I mean there's a such thing as health insurance, and since he's the main reason I'd need it, I believe that he should at least take responsibility for it...

But I'm not complaining...well I guess I kinda am, I am human you know, but I also know that my older sisters sacrifice a lot for me and I am so very grateful for them. I truly am. They work extra jobs to help through high school tuition, which is why I've got the kids so much. And you know, if I asked to get paid for babysitting so often, I bet they would try to work something out that they could afford to, but in a way they already do, so really I wouldn't let them if they tried...

Emotional support? I take it out on the ice or my skateboard...or a pen and paper...or computer...I find typing to be pretty theroputical(gah sp?) but when I just can't stand it, I do have some very good friends to go to, whom I'm extremely thankful for as well, and one of them would be my good friend Chrissy. **huggles Xeios** He and I may not seem to be very close on the boards, but if you guys saw us in person, you'd understand.
Xeoman
Posts: 624/11751
Well, I'm 17, you think I haven't tried? Yeah.

I wouldn't mind having a close female friend that I could talk to, or just anyone, but I just plain and simple, don't.
Makura
Posts: 175/1555
Originally posted by The Xeogred
Sure that may be very true. But for me personally, I find myself to very emotionally stable, with the help of ... myself.


As much as I myself like to be alone. It is impossible to live completly alone without anyone. I've tried, believe me. You have to find at least one person, (I've found mine ) that you can at least talk to.
Xeoman
Posts: 610/11751
Originally posted by True Flight
Originally posted by The Xeogred
Honestly I'm not very close to anyone.

Therefore, I mainly depend on myself mentally and emotionally.

For financial aid ... my parents I guess? It's not like they ever buy things for me, just food and clothes, nothing I'd "like" to have, unlike some of the people in the world.


hey Xeo-kun!! That's not right you're supposed to depend on someone. XD Why? Because it's something Dr. Phil would say.... XD


[No comment] ...

Honestly, I know about everyone in the world will say "It's good to have someone you can talk to, and just share anything with."

Sure that may be very true. But for me personally, I find myself to very emotionally stable, with the help of ... myself.
True Flight
Posts: 161/5243
Originally posted by The Xeogred
Honestly I'm not very close to anyone.

Therefore, I mainly depend on myself mentally and emotionally.

For financial aid ... my parents I guess? It's not like they ever buy things for me, just food and clothes, nothing I'd "like" to have, unlike some of the people in the world.


hey Xeo-kun!! That's not right you're supposed to depend on someone. XD Why? Because it's something Dr. Phil would say.... XD
Xeoman
Posts: 592/11751
Honestly I'm not very close to anyone.

Therefore, I mainly depend on myself mentally and emotionally.

For financial aid ... my parents I guess? It's not like they ever buy things for me, just food and clothes, nothing I'd "like" to have, unlike some of the people in the world.
True Flight
Posts: 155/5243
I happen to depend on a ton a people.

My sis, Mark, my bro, my mom and dad deffinetely. I actually had my dad feel anger towards that sperm donor of mine. I also depend on my friends to help make my day. lol
Jin
Posts: 99/546
My mom provides me with my financial needs.

But I provde myself with an acute ammount of emotional support.
Makura
Posts: 170/1555
Unfortunatly I depend on my Dad to provide a roof over my head, and food etc. I have a few friends that act as filler and entertain me. ( I know that sounded cold hearted )

I depend on my brother (Pockets) more than anyone. It's a mutual thing.
Déesse
Posts: 288/958
Well my dad is always there for me, financially and emotionally. He provides for me and my sister and he is always their when I'm down or needing some advice. Other then my dad I depend on my friends to a certain extent and my boyfriend who is always there for me.
Elara
Posts: 357/9734
I tend to depend on my friends the most, mainly WhiteRose, GuardianOni, Pockets, and especially Cryus. I don't like having to depend on people a lot, but when I need to they are there for me... and Cryus has an annoying habit of dragging out of me anything causing me stress... but at the same time I am grateful for it. I'd be lost without my friends, I really would.
Pockets
Posts: 183/838
I depend on myself. I have a couple friends that I trust enough to slightly depend on. The person I depend on the most though is Makura, my little sister.
Belial
Posts: 24/647
I've been let down too much too much to depend on anyone. I depend on myself.
WhiteRose
Posts: 134/1461
Well, while I depends on my friends, some on my parents, the main person I depend on would have to be my oni (GuardianOni). He's just always there for me and is willing to listen, talk or just hold me and let me cry when I need to. He has helped me through a lot in my life and I am very grateful to have such a wonderful person in my life.
Xeios
Posts: 222/2954
I have a few people who I rely on. and they are not my parents. All my parents can ever succeed in doing for me is making my want ot die or kill myself...But that's an entirely different story.

I usually depend on my friend Kait, My friend John(Cairoi), Raven, My one good buddy Justin, but other than that, I am on my own. I don't even express things when I'm feeling down to my girlfriend. I don't want to burden her...
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