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Originally posted by Sorcha Rohan
Well, that's convenient at least.
|So hear's the update. The week BEFORE I go to drill I am coming down there for moral support. Eric and I agreed on not getting her rocks for the upcoming baby but getting her a "baby blessing" package. SO MUCH CHEAPER than what I was going to get. 14.00 is so much better than 50.00 of gas and 10.00 altogether.|
|I'm not sure who all these people are by name, but yeah that's all pretty weird.|
|So I'm coming back to Columbus for a few days and this time I'm bringing Eric along with me.
D'arcy still can't hang in the trailer that Jodi, Chelle, and Johnny live in because of all the smoking that goes on in that house. Which I can't understand why instead of just getting a new house the still want to get another trailer. ; CONTINUING.
I told my mother about the scenario and she turns around and looks at me going, "Why are they forcing a lifestyle that many will not approve of on their family?"
I then looked at her and went, "Because the only one that doesn't approve is Jodi's dad? and the reason Father In Law doesn't approve is because of financial reasons."
My mom then retorted with, "You married into a very weird family."
You're telling me mom, you're telling me.
|Everything is going fine at the moment. Chelle turned around and told me all about her aches and pains. lol I wish I could say something to not set her off. I pretty much told her in the polite way to DEAL WITH IT. But other than that she is doing fine. The drama is not with in the trio relationship it's with in the families around. I have gotten the desperate call to come back to Columbus with Eric because his sister doesn't know how to deal with her girlfriend's mother. Lucky me... scape goat.|
|Any new developments in this? Hope everything's going well, True.|
|I think that she missed your point, but it is kind of a non-issue if you can't go anyway.|
|Well Elara I have already talked with Jodi about the issue. She tells me all that stuff about how Eric has no issue with her talking to her and what not. I don't blame her because since it's ERIC and not ME there's no issue.
I can't make it anyway.
|Very thoughtful gift, I think she'd love it.
I second Rogue on the idea of just going and pretending she doesn't exist. You are there to celebrate and support someone else, not this ex, so she should be of no importance. Talk to your sister-in-law and express your concerns, maybe she can help.
|I've been noticing a lot of these couples with an extra girlfriend lately.
It's never ended well.
Usually one of the girls gets exceptionally jealous (the wife was rarely allowed to try other men, but the husband would be with other women) or in the case of this older, married couple I knew who were keeping a teenage girl from going to school saying that she would be out on the street if she ever tried to better herself. When she finally left the couple were heartbroken and don't really speak to each other right now.
God what a mess when the other woman gets pregnant.
Anyway... as you said this isn't about that.
Can you just go to the party, your own baby girl in tow, and pretend you don't see the bitch of an ex? If some shit's going to go down let her be the one who started it, and just don't say anything to her.
That's a pretty thoughtful gift, by the way.
|Don't know but lately there has been something in the water.
Anywho I will break it down:
Eric *my husband* has a sister.
His sister is married.
His sister and brother and law have a live in girlfriend.
The live in girlfirned is pregnant.
I hope that helps.
This isn't a judgemental post on her choice of lifestyle. It's about her baby shower.
So I get an inviation from Eric's sister to go to her gf's baby shower. Eric replies might go. I look at the guest list and Eric's exe is on there. If I go I will make a scene. Seriously. I have found out that I do hold grudges and I will forget about them until I see that person who caused it all.
Knowing that I can't go makes me a little upset that my sister in law invited her anyway. Eric doesn't care but I feel that he should care that I care. There is deffinetely an issue here to me. I'm not going to hang around osmeone who speaks bull shit all the time.
Anyway the mother to be is wiccan so I was thinking about sending her something for a Preparing Ritual. Mainly because nobody thinks about that they just think baby baby baby.
Oh and the judgemental stuff I get from her about how I'm not a "green mother" and my dirty diapers are harmful.
1. IT's easy my cloth diapers suck and I don't have the money to buy any nifty ones.
2. the diaper rash.
ugh tired and glad that's off my chest.