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Rogue
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Since: 08-17-04

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Posted on 07-10-05 11:47 PM Link | Quote
I'm all for sex. It's good. It's healthy. It's human. But after watching the way some people are about it, I just want to know what's the big freakin' deal?

Why are guys so sex-driven? I know women can be too, believe you me I know about that, but (again after watching others) why are men so in need of it?

I've noticed that it's often times more in the bragging right. Getting to go to the boys and boast about the nights you've had.

But really what I'm wondering is why there's so much attention latched on to it? Why is there so much honor and taboo? Why are people so eager to talk about it or otherwise not say a word?
Elara

Divine Mamkute
Dark Elf Goddess
Chaos Imp
Penguins Fan

Ms. Invisable








Since: 08-15-04
From: Ferelden

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Posted on 07-11-05 12:14 AM Link | Quote
I don't really know why some people are so obsessed with it either. I'll talk about it if it comes up, but that is just how I am with any topic.

It is really annoying when all a guy wants is sex, I mean, yeah it's nice and all but dude, what the hell?! We are humans, not jack rabbits!

And any guy that does it just for bragging rights should be castrated, plain and simple. Same goes for girls... although I'm thinking cliterectomy there. Stupid people like that should not be having sex and risk breeding.
Drizzt

Berserker
You put a bullet in my head, Till black turns to red! This could all end in tragedy!








Since: 08-20-04
From: Read "Real Name"

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Posted on 07-11-05 12:58 AM Link | Quote
to tell the truth i dont even know what the big deal is. i just live my life the way it is. i dont worry about those things it just makes a relationship strained i think. so i really dont know what the big deal is
D馥sse

Sailor D馥sse
Mistress of Pink
Ambition is a poor excuse for not having enough sense to be lazy








Since: 08-14-04
From: The Moon

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Posted on 07-11-05 02:03 AM Link | Quote
I hate it when guys brag about it, it's like they scored in a game and so they have to tell all their mates I tend to ignore people like that seriously, it's apart of life, it's a normal thing and a personal and private thing to that person/s.
Xeoman

Gibdo
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Since: 08-14-04
From: 255

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Posted on 07-11-05 07:18 AM Link | Quote
You just don't understand the male machine, Rogue.

But HONESTLY ...

I can't say. All I can say is it looks fun, and that's about it.

Why some people brag about it I'm clueless on, I probably wouldn't even tell anyone if I happened to have sex or whatever, unless I was married or something (that's a duh then).
Cyro Xero

Rune Mage

Rave Atom








Since: 02-23-05
From: Minnesota!!

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Posted on 07-11-05 08:06 AM Link | Quote
Why are men so into sex? It's a simple answer, but it may not be known to a whole lot of people. This trait can be traced back all the way to the beginnings of mankind, the "caveman" days. Often, males were being killed for various reasons, hunting accidents, being attacked by animals/other people, killed while protecting a mate, etc. The life expectancy was pretty low back then for guy. So one of the things that needed to be done was to "spread their seed" as soon as possible before they died. This was done at a pretty early age, maybe at around 20 or so. This thinking and/or action was constant within the male mind for generations. As such, guys eventually evolved with this trait and it's been with us ever since. Much like how other things did.

For instance, women are much better than men at noticing still objects becuase in that same era they had the repsonsibilty to gather berries and plants for food, and men are much better than women at noticing even slightly moving objects because they were so focused with hunting and carefully watched for movement of hidden animals (which is one of the reasons guys are so good at video games and play it more than females).

A simple trait as a simple answer. As for why men sometimes brag about having sex think about this: would you brag if you were suddenly given a thousand dollars? Probably. Why? Because someone getting a thousand dollars just like that doesn't happen very often (unless you have a big paycheck. Men have a hard time getting sex becuase most women don't want it all the time, or at least as much we do. So if me and my buddies are average Joes' who don't get sex very often and all of sudden I do, I feel I'm on higher level of existence (sometimes guys really do feel that way) than my friends unless they had it too. So I'll go sort of brag about.

Personally I don't brag, but there are guys out there who sometimes do it. Mainly the younger lot of us.
Black Lord

Koopa








Since: 12-12-04

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Posted on 07-11-05 11:15 AM Link | Quote
Well I just lost my virginity 2 days ago.

And honestly I don't think I'm gonna talk to anybody else about it other then my significant other. I have no need to brag. We did it because we both feel we truly love eachother and honestly I wasn't looking to get laid, yes I had the condoms, but the only reason I had them was because I wanted to be safe if something would of come up, and if I didn't have any protection then I would of been in some deep shit.

And truthfully, sex without love, is just a waste, completely.
Cyro Xero

Rune Mage

Rave Atom








Since: 02-23-05
From: Minnesota!!

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Posted on 07-11-05 12:11 PM Link | Quote
See that's another thing. Some people say it's not all that great to have sex when you're not married. But, not that those same people are being hypocrites, they still have the urge to do so.

Congrats (I guess) BL. Do you regret doing it at all? I lost mine about sometime around the end of May of this year. 24 year streak of nothing. I'm with a girl right now and we've had sex a few times. However, unlike a lot people who preach about waiting, I don't really feel bad about it. I'm a Christian and go to church sometimes, but I don't really regret this. As long as I'm being with the person for a long time then I don't think it'll matter to me. If it was something to the extent of a 1-hour stand, and I never got to know the girl at all then I might have certain feelings about it.

I believe that as long you love somebody, and not just like them, then it's okay.
Kaijin Surohm
I'll save you all time:
My opinion is completely diffrent from yours.
Thus, you should hate me and not get to know me.
I just saved you 3 days worth of arguements.








Since: 08-16-04

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Posted on 07-11-05 12:11 PM Link | Quote
Lol
Blame the US Censors.

American people have the tendancyto "protect" children from crap their going to see anyway. If the dumbass people would stop with the Censoring of harmless stuff, we wouldn't be so obsessed with it.

People are both afraid, and intreged with the Unknown. By making Sex censored on TV, and misc. other little things, it becomes Unknown the children. Thus, it makes them curious, and then they wanna jump right into it.

Take a look at other countries compaired to ours. We are the most sex crazed out there... Why? Because we're the only country that emphisizes on Censoring. (As far as I'v been informed, anyway.)

Thus my hypothosis: If we make Sex an every day, no big deal thing, will we continue horning in on it (We being Men.)?

Just like when a Parent tells a child "No" to something, it makes the child WANT to do whatever they were told no over.
Black Lord

Koopa








Since: 12-12-04

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Posted on 07-11-05 12:18 PM Link | Quote
I don't have any regrets in doing it. Because I am in love with the girl I did it with. Now if it was just a spur of the moment, girl sees me and is attracted, I see girl and am attracted, and then we do it. Then I would have regrets.
Drizzt

Berserker
You put a bullet in my head, Till black turns to red! This could all end in tragedy!








Since: 08-20-04
From: Read "Real Name"

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Posted on 07-11-05 12:33 PM Link | Quote
ill admit it im still a virgin but do i really care? no i dont! i know that i will find someone out there for me. and sex isnt the number 1 thing on my mind hasnt been and probobly wont be for a while. and i agree with "xenogod" that the us is like the only country that emphisizes on censorship. i know that japan dousnt really care about censorship. iv heard of some shows that would have to be ordered on teh playboy channel here in the us and then you go to japan and its on regular tv. everything is different in every country. i dont care about bragging rights or anything like that i just want to live a peacefull life.
WhiteRose

Warrior
Sailor Delerium

Have you ever spent days and days and days making up flavors of ice cream that no ones ever eaten before? Like chicken and telephone ice cream?...Green mouse ice cream was the worst.








Since: 08-17-04
From: The Dreaming

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Posted on 07-11-05 02:08 PM Link | Quote
I don't see sex as a big deal. Just like a lot of my friends, I see is as a natural part of being human. I may joke around and make it seem like I"m braggin, but I generally do that just to make my fiance blush, but actual bragging and having sex just so you can brag, I cannot tolerate. It's stupid, idiotic and pointless. I have no problem with sex before marriage. As long as you have something special with the person your doing it with, then it's fine.
天国JOE

俺、どうになるのじゃろう?








Since: 09-02-04
From: Destroy Tower

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Posted on 07-11-05 02:35 PM Link | Quote
Well, guys are pretty sex-driven. It's kinda our nature I guess. In the Animal Kingdom, the male goes around mating. He picks a mate, mates, then either stays, gets eaten, or goes away to mate with another female (lions do that). So that could answer for some of it. Butother than that, I dunno.

I wouldn't brag about the stuff. If they ask I may or may not answer truthfully but if they ask me to go in full detail, then no. This is WHEN I actually end up having the big s.e.x. Still a while away. Unless...something unexpected happens.
Banned
Banned








Since: 08-17-04

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Posted on 07-11-05 03:30 PM Link | Quote
I for one am not sex driven at all... (I mean hell, I've never felt physically attracted to anybody... before really. But yeah...

So I was talking to a (now ex) friend of mine... a particularilly perveted person... So he was talking about how he wanted to "fuck this one girl" (whom he didn't know the name of) and how he was going to figure out a way to do so... *nod nod* so I asked him why he was so sex driven, compared him to a series of animals, and such...
"You only don't want sex 'cause you've never had it," he says
To which I respond, "Neither have you."

This conversation ends with him calling me a fag, then I realizing that the girl he was talking about was a friend of mine... and me smashing a chair over his head... but that's beside the point...

just thought I'd share that with you... fun story


(Last edited by Shaddow Flight on 07-11-05 06:37 PM)
Elara

Divine Mamkute
Dark Elf Goddess
Chaos Imp
Penguins Fan

Ms. Invisable








Since: 08-15-04
From: Ferelden

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Posted on 07-11-05 10:11 PM Link | Quote
Dude, someone's layout is seriously messed up.
Benja

Battering Bird








Since: 08-15-04
From: none of your damn business

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Posted on 07-11-05 10:16 PM Link | Quote
Benja sees everyone looking at him

WHAT?! Oh come on now, benjas not really all about that.........sometimes.

Men usually are driven towards sex because around the teenage/early-middle adult years, their hormones cannot stop driving. They think sex is a way to really supress such a thing. Around their late 20's early 30's it starts to fade. Though many people consider sex as a way of proving themselves to each other for their love and that is not the right way to do things. It would be necessary to tell your mate if you have a problem with sex that other ways are possible of showing love with each other.
GuardianOni

Shaman








Since: 09-07-04
From: The dark path

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Posted on 07-11-05 11:54 PM Link | Quote
I think that people brag about sex for different reasons.

Some guys will brag about it to prove their manhood, and role in society. Other simply because it was a good thing that happened. And most people brag about good things that happen to them.

The reason there is so much taboo, and stuff is because reproduction is so important, and is a basic thing for all creatures.

As for those who say nothing... We just don't feel like it. I for one am easily embarrassed about certain... things...
True Flight

The One








Since: 08-21-04

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Posted on 07-12-05 03:57 AM Link | Quote
I for one am not sex driven.........

......

Ofcourse I'm probably still in the stages of going through life with out it til marriage. The thing is I'm afraid it'll be like a Hershey bar. Once you finish it you'll want another one, then another, then another, and then another. You see... I actually FEAR sex before marriage. It's a paranoia I deal with everyday.
Katana

Dark Wizard
\"She said tonight...come on come on collide...see what I fire feels like..I bet its just like heaven.\"








Since: 08-15-04
From: Philadelphia, P.A.

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Posted on 07-13-05 12:08 AM Link | Quote
Hmmm....sex, in my opinion...is something that is completely natural and all. But I see it as something that has no gray area. It's either good or bad. Good when you're ready for it. And no, I don't mean "ready" as in only waiting for marriage...in my honest opinion, people don't make weddings on when they're ready for sex...you're either ready or you're not. I find it quite possible for someone to be totally ready before marriage, and then even after marriage, someone to be not so ready just yet. Being ready, I suppose, is not having any repercussions to think of. Meaning, what could be considered consequences, would be considered blessings.

**shrugs** I'm prolly not making any sense...and my opinions, and reasons to back up what I think don't end there...I could even go on to continue to back up what I've already stated. **shrugs** But I don't want to bore everybody.

Oh, and for the record, I can't help but like Cyro and Guardian Oni's opinions. Cyro admits that men want sex and stuff, but I've never had someone actually back that up...and even if his statement is proven wrong by anyone, I still think it's cool that he gave an intelligent explanation. 'Least I understand men a bit more. And what Oni said about bragging...I won't deny that I brag about good things.
Leon D. Sagara

Zombie Tarma
HELLO!!!!! ^_^








Since: 08-18-04
From: To Hell and Back

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Posted on 07-15-05 03:37 PM Link | Quote
its a weakness issue, Weak and Simple mided men with no tact and dignity often resort to sexual intercorse to make up for their be-fallen pride as a man. That type of man is weak and foolish. Real men do not need such trivial things such as intercorse in order to prove them selves to.....themselves.

Thats my way of thinking abotu it
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