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Jedi Master Desroth

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Since: 08-24-04
From: Macomb

Since last post: 5031 days
Last activity: 4471 days
Posted on 05-19-05 02:54 PM Link | Quote
People are such stupid creatures... Lately, i have begun noticing that people do things that are retarded, and give no warning. Things have turned rather stupid with the people i know. my friend Mark has not changed, but my friend Josh dissappears when we are trying to hang in a group at school. Beo was mad at me for a while, then he was okay, now he has blocked me (dont lie, i know you blocked me). I gained new friends, like Ben and Myles, but they are nothing like the friends i have had for a long time (like Mark, Josh, Beo). Who else has a problem with how stupid people are when it comes to friends and or family? Just to note, this isnt meant to cause any form of arguments with ANYONE and i mean ANYONE! This is to reconcile and to discuss problems with friends and family.
Rauni









Since: 08-14-04

Since last post: 1306 days
Last activity: 1306 days
Posted on 05-19-05 03:33 PM Link | Quote
For your information, Desroth... I spend alot of time away from you because:

- You bother me everyday. "Yo, man." is starting to be more annoying, and you kept going on and on until either one of us ask us to stop (like BRB, or any other stuff).
- I don't even like how you kept saying stuff about people like: "That ass" because I found that somewhat a little offensive toward to people like Tamarin. You just don't take a whole advantage of people's feeling (except to the part where Spartan and my battle. Now that was a better choice.).
- I am getting a little sick of having too many sleepover. No matter what, it seem that you want to have alot of sleepover at some point where I can't disagree with your idea.
- Too many works and study. Look, I got a A- in my Earth Science (hey, my first time to get a A in as least one science) and I really need to keept it a little higher. Motive Psychology is working out on me (and it did change me for better or for worse so blame it on that.)
- I took alot of advice and listen to the Seven Habit for Highly Effective Teenagers. As much as I don't want to spent on Win-Lose, Lose-Win, and Lose-Lose situation, I can't spend on either of those 3 and try to make you feel better. Doing this will also make me feel for worse.
- Based on my feeling, sometime, I feel that we are taking this friendship too far and this kinda feel like I don't have any private moment. You may be socialable, but I am not good with socialable activity.

Hate to break it to ya Desroth, but people need their own time and moment. I can't spend my whole life having sleepover with you at both my dad's house and mom's house. I mean, everytime you come over, we change our plan because you ask too much of one thing (like playing Super Smash Bros. Melee. It getting a little bad since you suck the funness out it... I know I am boring with one player anyway...)

Beside, you are also building pressure inside of me... It get harder every passing moment where I don't want to harm you but is forcing me against my will and temper. I know it is hard to understand everyone, but you need to understand most of their need. (Hell, it is hard for me to understand what you want.)

Plus, I am not huge on serious friendship relationship... I prefer to remain it calm and I am also busy. Desroth, you should know that my time can be wasted by talking to you where I could start doing important activity such as getting ready to study for my Idea In Literature Exam. (I mean, I got a A on it and it have been progressing so well so far without a little interfering from you.)

Just please understand that I am trying to work this out... You just making thing a little harder to balance and sort my life out. It isn't that because I don't like you, you are just hard to be sorted into my life where I want to make it thing clearer and not a bit screwed up.

Plus, I isn't stupid... Oh wait... But just remember this:

People have their own needs as well. You can't expect them to be as you wish. If they feel like being pressure by that person, they would most likely to avoid them more then you would notice.

Just a friendly tips. Plus, my brother is home and I haven't catched up with him in a while... He's change a little so I haven't notice until he didn't beat me up at all!
Jedi Master Desroth

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Since: 08-24-04
From: Macomb

Since last post: 5031 days
Last activity: 4471 days
Posted on 05-19-05 04:04 PM Link | Quote
Nice points you have there. Here are some of my own.

1. Sometimes im doing work and i dont have time to repond to you in a contsructive manner. This leads to a easy and simple solution that will both fulfill a requirment of an answer and keep people aware that you are still there and not dead or something.

2. I know your brother is home, that is why I havent called you for going online and chatting. My mom was in college, I know when all the breaks are just about.

3. You have the right to say no to something you dont want to do. Dont feel that you have to please me in anyway shape or form. I dont have any requests of you to do anything for me, but I do things for you. You need a ride home? You got it. You want to go somewhere you cant? Ill take you. You dont want a B-Day present? You got it.

4. I have known you for 6 years. I remeber when you had no friends, no one liked you, and everyone made fun of you behind your back. I was the only one to understand you, and like you for who you are.

5. I dont know about you, but i say BRB because I actually have to go do something. If you do it to avoid me, thats really not my problem. Dont base what you do on me. Plus saying "Yo man" is a way of GREETING SOMEONE. And i only say hey... conversations start with simple things like whats up...

6. I do not wish you to be like me, because you cant be like me. Not even in a million years will you be me. I know this, and you know this.

7. As I remeber, you are the one who lets ME go over to your house for ANYTHING. Its not like I make you come over to my house. I only go over to your MOMS house. your with her 3/4 of the year. I also know you dont see your dad alot, so i dont want to go over and interupt you there. You have the power to say no to S.O., it is your house i go to begin with. You have said no before, but usually your like "Yeah, let me ask my mom!"

8. You are good sociably. The Beo I know at your house is way different then what you show anywhere else. You talk alot more then you credit yourself for, and i would think you would like to type more then talking.

Okay, this was suppose to be a thread for stuff like this, so i congratulate Beo for being someone who saw this thread for what is made for. Hopefully other people will follow his example.

Rauni









Since: 08-14-04

Since last post: 1306 days
Last activity: 1306 days
Posted on 05-19-05 04:27 PM Link | Quote
Originally posted by Jedi Master Desroth
Hopefully other people will follow his example.



Does the word "Thickheaded" and "Headstrong" mean anything to you?

Originally posted by Jedi Master Desroth
4. I have known you for 6 years. I remeber when you had no friends, no one liked you, and everyone made fun of you behind your back. I was the only one to understand you, and like you for who you are..



Half-right, half-wrong. Truth is: I have minimal friends. I got few people who liked me (Amber Z. came to my mind) and if I would have known everyone made fun of my behind my back, then I would actually be a bully, wouldn't I? Hell, it's funny the way I see it because nearly everyone like me for who I am. (It show that proof about number 8)

Originally posted by Jedi Master Desroth
5. I dont know about you, but i say BRB because I actually have to go do something. If you do it to avoid me, thats really not my problem. Dont base what you do on me. Plus saying "Yo man" is a way of GREETING SOMEONE. And i only say hey... conversations start with simple things like whats up...



"Hey baby" is also another way of greeting people too, in more of a joke way. "How are you silly?" get even deeper... do I need to eplain more? You may started off with a "Hey" but it would be nice to see "Did you hear about how bad Hitchhiker Guide to the Galaxy is?" This would give a better impression toward to me on how do you greet. It is much more easier then just a standard "Hey..."

Originally posted by Jedi Master Desroth
7. As I remeber, you are the one who lets ME go over to your house for ANYTHING. Its not like I make you come over to my house. I only go over to your MOMS house. your with her 3/4 of the year. I also know you dont see your dad alot, so i dont want to go over and interupt you there. You have the power to say no to S.O., it is your house i go to begin with. You have said no before, but usually your like "Yeah, let me ask my mom!"


1 word: Boredom. 2 words: Not fun. 3 words: I don't care. Alot of words I am not going to count: While I see this way, sometime it seem you want to come over to my house for fun... and tend to get a little carry-off. Heck, we might ended up hurting each other for nothing helpful since either you...:

- Couldn't fight back to defense yourself.
- Try to coward your way out.

+100 point to Socialogy. if anyone have be counting the long words thingy.

Originally posted by Jedi Master Desroth
8. You are good sociably. The Beo I know at your house is way different then what you show anywhere else. You talk alot more then you credit yourself for, and i would think you would like to type more then talking.


Major different. I usually don't prefer talking in something I am not interested in. If it is a games, yeah, I will talk so much about it, but in everything else? Not much. Unless when it come to certain people. (Gosh... Biancha is so hot... I wanna date her!) but if this is how you honestly see me this way, guess I can't wait to show you what to be like if I was only alone.
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