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True Flight

The One








Since: 08-21-04

Since last post: 613 days
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Posted on 10-12-13 12:37 PM Link | Quote
Every weekend its the same thing over and over. Forgive me for the grammar errors. I try my hardest to introduce change in this household, but every time I do Eric gets annoyed with me. What change am I talking about? Stop wasting the weekend away by jumping on the computer. I let him sleep in til 12 pm no problem. As soon as I check to see if he's awake, he's on the computer. Now d takes a 45 minute to hour long nap around 3 or 4 pm. She has been wanting to cut naps out and she won't go take a nap around 2 pm like she always does. I have things to do and I'm so tired of him staying on the computer til 1 making it impossible to get anything done. On top of that he doesn't take his shower til after he wakes up during weekends. Once again delaying anything to be done. I try to tell him how I feel CALMLY... but all he does is shove it off like its not a big deal. Fuck you Eric it is. We have today planned out like crazy. I even brief him the day before and every single weekend he botches everything up. I know he puts in long hours at work and hes exhausted when he gets home and I leave everything open for suggestion the day before I make all these plans. YET EVERY SINGLE TIME HE BACKS DOWN THE DAY OF!!!! its so frustrating. I can't stand him when he does this too. Its like pulling teeth to get him to do anything. A couple weekends back we went to the park and there was a festival going on there, face painting and what not. I suggested we go over to get D's face done he talks about how its impossible to get her to even sit still. But it WOULD BE SOMETHING DIFFERENT. Finally after making my argument valid it was too fucking late. All of the big slides to slide down with d with had huge lines and the line for face painting was closed. WHAT AM I DOING WRONG? what do I need to do?
Elara

Divine Mamkute
Dark Elf Goddess
Chaos Imp
Penguins Fan

Ms. Invisable








Since: 08-15-04
From: Ferelden

Since last post: 19 days
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Posted on 10-13-13 08:10 PM Link | Quote
Ben is the same way. Like Rogue said, some times you just need to go do what you want and when they realize they missed out on the fun maybe they will start getting shit done.
Cteno

Super Shotgun
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Since: 01-11-05

Since last post: 134 days
Last activity: 20 days
Posted on 10-14-13 11:28 PM Link | Quote
I'll admit that I have been this person, but every once in a while, I'll try something new just to realize the things on which I missed out. It takes a bit more than a subtle nudge (because of my laziness), but once I get going it's much easier.
True Flight

The One








Since: 08-21-04

Since last post: 613 days
Last activity: 598 days
Posted on 10-15-13 11:52 AM Link | Quote
Update: I made it quite apparent to him that I was displeased with what he was doing. I convinced him to finally go out to the park. He enjoyed it and we made a new friend.

I even told him that he was treating me like a "baby sitter" and not like a "mother or wife" we haven't done anything as a family for weeks upon months. Eric was a little upset but he agreed that I was right.

Cteno

Super Shotgun
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Since: 01-11-05

Since last post: 134 days
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Posted on 10-16-13 01:18 AM Link | Quote
You go, girl! Sometimes us guys just need a swift kick in the butt.
Elara

Divine Mamkute
Dark Elf Goddess
Chaos Imp
Penguins Fan

Ms. Invisable








Since: 08-15-04
From: Ferelden

Since last post: 19 days
Last activity: 19 days
Posted on 10-17-13 10:11 PM Link | Quote
Originally posted by Cteno
You go, girl! Sometimes us guys just need a swift kick in the butt.


^^ What he said.
Cyro Xero

Rune Mage

Rave Atom








Since: 02-23-05
From: Minnesota!!

Since last post: 549 days
Last activity: 461 days
Posted on 10-19-13 06:27 PM Link | Quote
My girlfriend and I talked about this on couple occasions. Doing stuff together is important to me, and I lax as we've been lately We both make an effort to go out together, even though sometimes I feel like sitting at home. I guess forcefully dragging him might work, too.
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